I am married, and have met a man with whom I feel instantly connected with spiritually. He and I get along very well and can talk about anything. He knows I am married and even knows my husband. I am not sure if I should bring this idea up to him or not.
2006-07-17 14:06:32 · 13 answers · asked by Jen L 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
In regards to my question, leaving my husband is not what I want to do. I need higher spiritual guidance than the "don't leave your husband routine."
2006-07-17 15:27:29 · update #1
You can have it all. Keep the husband and Keep the spiritual friend
A soul mate is not outside of you
The mate of the soul is your spirit
the soul records your life without jugment
the spirit engages life to discover spirituality
to discover life
your spiritual friend has the same frequency specific quantum signature as you
dats why you are so connected
you are allowed to have all of them
all the connections your precious brain seek
your brain fires at the same speed as your spiritual friend
unfortunately your husband has a different frequecy
you can still love him too
YOur husband is your sexual partner
your spiritual friend is your brain partner
2006-07-17 14:22:26 · answer #1 · answered by Lapis Lazuli 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh girl friend I feel your pain! I used to believe in soul mates. It is a great and wonderful thought. But bottom line is the reason people used to stay married for life is because of what society told us. back then they believed if you make a commitment then you stick to it. And you know what? Turns out that there spouse was their soul mate. Because they followed though. Did the right thing. Now a days things are disposable. It isn't right. Cheating is a high. Like all highs you will come down. Like all highs you may lose it all. And in the beginning of ANY relationship it is like butterfly's in your tummy. So wonderful. But as time passes they go away. And either you move on to the next level. or you divorce and or cheat. You are not rally happy right now. He fills a void. But in the end I bet you would end up where you are right now. And have many regret. Take care.
2006-07-17 21:44:43 · answer #2 · answered by fiveftfirecracker 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do not know your situation. So I can not judge it. However, I believe there is many people on this Earth that you can and will be connected with. Many people connect in different ways. You obviously at some time felt some connection with your husband, maybe in a different way than this new guy. But marriage is something you should hold on to, especially if you have no good reason not to. I would not bring this up to him.
Good luck
2006-07-17 21:14:11 · answer #3 · answered by haley 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust me on this one. A married Friend of mine told her husband was seeing another woman. Eventually her husband told me this was true. when he described her his eyes got all glassy and his knees got weak. for 18 months i tried to talk him out of divorcing his wife. Soul mate, Truelove, and meant to be were words used a lot during this time. This was 3 years ago. For the last 18 months he has cried to me and said countless times he wishes he had listed to me.
You are infatuated with this man! if you do not get away and stay away from him you will regret it. By the way if you follow my advice this will not be the last time in your life this happens.
2006-07-17 21:18:16 · answer #4 · answered by been There 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Usually your supposed to be married to your soulmate but a lot of times that doesn't happen and you meet your soulmate while in a committed relationship. Casing point, me and my wife. She was married when I met her and I knew right away she was the one and vice versa. Lucky for me (unfortunate for her ex) her marriage wasn't good anyway and I was her way out. You may want to bring the idea up to see if he feels the same way.
2006-07-17 21:13:49 · answer #5 · answered by USC Fan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't believe in soul mates personally, I think that there are certain people out there that one can be compatible with and more then one person you could fall in love with. don't do anything you will regret it isn't worth ruining a marriage. if you like the guy just keep it to yourself or gush about it with friends, crushes are harmless, and friendships are harmless, just do yourself a favor and don't cross that line and have an affair. You will likely regret it.
2006-07-17 21:18:34 · answer #6 · answered by javajunkie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i totally believe in soul mates..i have mine...well we r going to be together anyway soon, u r ripping urself off in life being away from ur soulmate...is what we were put here on this earth for, to not be alone...god created things in pairs for a reason (if u believe in god....lol...) but as for telling him he probably already know and feels the same way...if hes ur true soul mate then he will already know how u feel.. go with ur heart not ur head..ur heart will always win in the end...tc : )
2006-07-17 21:14:19 · answer #7 · answered by angel_of_ur_heart35 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just because your married does not mean you stop functioning as a human being ...or stop feeling attraction...but should you act on it ...you decide that !!!!......and yes I do believe we have soulmates!!!!
2006-07-17 21:13:15 · answer #8 · answered by pineforestkim 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure if you want to get a divorce
2006-07-17 21:10:19 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes for sure
2006-07-17 21:09:56 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋