Well, I am dating someone who is only interested in eatting Kitty (if you know what I mean) He can't seem to get hard no matter what and it's a complete turn off for me. He gives excuse like if I give him a blow it will happpen and that he will get hard if he does it in the back . Well I don't believe in anal sex. He claims I got to put in the work if I want it hard.
My quest. is? is it possible for a guy to have erectile dysfunction and use eatting kitty as an excuse to hide the problem or is it that I"m not freaky and dont turn him on? If thats the case why is he calling asking to eat kitty all the time. is he hook or what?
2006-07-17 13:23:34 · 20 answers · asked by butterfly 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Something's not kosher about the situation for sure...if he's turned on enough to want to go down on you, then he should get an erection if he's able...don't let him cause you to feel like "you've got to put in the work" as it shouldn't take work to get him up if he's not got a medical problem...
He doesn't sound worth keeping and even trying to work this issue out...let him and his p*ssy eatin' go...
2006-07-17 13:28:44 · answer #1 · answered by . 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
was with a guy like this for years. and yes it is possible to suffer erectile disfunction, although when we spoke to doctors they said that healthy men under 55 that suffer with this are usually suffering with a psycological problem rather than medical reason for not becoming errect. we tried a few drugs but it didnt work...the oral (or kitty eating as u put it) was brilliant but yes u do miss REAL sex!
Have u tried anal? or u just dont like the thought of it?
2006-07-17 13:32:20 · answer #2 · answered by Aussieblonde -bundy'd 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is either really good at taming the snake and keeping Mister Happy calm or he has trouble getting it up, so if I say whatever happens do not go against your beliefs. Also, if he can't get it up after eating kitty or furture he has a problem.
2006-07-17 13:30:06 · answer #3 · answered by Joey G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is he on drugs? Steroids will do that for sure, so will coke and some other drugs, even prescription ones.... If he isn't doing drugs, then it could be a number of problems that have nothing to do with you. Trust me, if he likes putting his mouth down there, you have something going on for you. Encourage him to see a doctor about this, but don't talk about it during sex, take him out to lunch or someplace neutral first. Good Luck!
2006-07-17 13:26:53 · answer #4 · answered by wellbeing 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It truly could be one or the other...or both..but most men that like to eat kitty gets hard when doing it so if he doesn't it probably is dysfunction
2006-07-17 13:29:21 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
you must have a yummy kitty but i really dont know what to tell y ou... he is prorbaly using this as an excuse b/c he can not have an erection and doesnt want y ou to get turned off... just let him have y our kitty and if your relationship is otherwise good just go with it but if you truly want the right answer you should ask him
2006-07-17 13:29:15 · answer #6 · answered by nikkig813 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
oh my, well how old is this gentalmen has he had alot of experience? all of that is a factor you may need to put forth effort. give him "blow" dance for him talk dirty to him dont give him kitty make him work for it:) if not then you have to ask yourself if sex is important in this relationship and go from their! oh have you ever seen it hard? that may answer it for ya he should have atleast got hard the first time.
2006-07-17 13:30:53 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmmm. It could be that he just takes a long time to get it going. I personally have a hard time with women who just want to get right down to it. Or it could be erectile dysfunction.
Try really long foreplay. Try just teasing him and teasing him, try to find out what turns him on. But he shouldn't have to go in the back. That's not normal.
Oh, and wellbeing is right, he could be on coke also. Coke will make it go limp every time.
2006-07-17 13:25:56 · answer #8 · answered by I Know Nuttin 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It does sound like he has some sort of erectile problem. And it sounds like he's offering the only sex he knows how to give (meow-meow) considering the situation. Offer to watch pornos or wear sexy lingerie and if he still can't get it up, I would tell him this is not YOUR problem, it's HIS and he needs to see a Dr. about it. Good luck!
2006-07-17 13:28:45 · answer #9 · answered by carolscreation 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Eating kitty is the best but loving you would be better dump him call me you sound interesting and hot. James
2006-07-17 13:28:09 · answer #10 · answered by james j 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋