That's right folks. I just found out because I am at my mom's house and he just drove up. They are now outside talking cutting the deal and I am so mad I do not know what to do. Smoke is coming out of my ears and I don't know if I should go out side and just go crazy on the whole gang of them or just leave. Or maybe I am being immature and silly and I should just understand that out of all of the thousands of friggin gardners in the area, my parents should chose this CREEP. Talk to me people. I need help.
2006-07-17 13:17:04 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
In a way I can see how you would be angry, but get over it. Your parents have the right to choose the gardener of their choice. If they choose your ex-wife's husband, then such is life. While I do question your parent's judgement I also have to respect it. Don't let him or your wife ex-wife know that it is getting under your skin and after he leaves ask your parents "What the heck they were thinking?" Good luck. Peace.
2006-07-17 13:31:06 · answer #1 · answered by cave man 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-02 06:07:48 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends.
Is he a reputable gardener? Regardless, I doubt your parents chose him to cause you harm. I'm sure it was based solely on the fact that they knew him and/or that he's good at what he does.
If you don't like him, don't be around when he's there. You're not being immature by disliking him, it's natural to feel resentment. But don't act on it, it's not fair to your parents or to him- he's there for work, not for socializing. Keep your personal feelings out of the situation.
If he acts like a jerk around you, just tell him that he's there to do work and should leave you alone and do what he's been paid to do. If he keeps being a jerk (insulting you, hassling you), then tell your parents and request that they fire him because he's ignoring his work to bother you. They'll listen if you have a valid reason to fire him.
2006-07-17 13:22:45 · answer #3 · answered by lookdontlook 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess I would be a little upset. But he is just a Gardner. Not a in the house servant. Do your parents know who he is? And why is he a creep just because he married your EX?
2006-07-17 13:28:34 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, you need to Grow Up and stop trying to control other people's lives!!! Your parents can do as they please and do not need your permission for anythng they do! You need to go to an Anger Management Class or counseling. Yes, you are immature and a moron....no wonder she is your ex-wife.....your are a control freak!! Get a life because you will be the one on the outside....Looser!
2006-07-17 13:22:44 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's doing a gardening job, how threatening can that really be? Cowboy up and move on with your life, instead if sitting around, fuming at the wife you no longer have, and her new spouse.
2006-07-17 13:19:33 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
At least your not doing it, right.
You don't live there so whats the problem?
But on a personal level I would be pissed. I probably wouldn't talk to my parents for awhile and make sure that they knew why.
2006-07-17 13:32:20 · answer #7 · answered by sisT27 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
calm down... do not go out, and do not leave.
wait till your parents come back in and talk " I mean TALK " and let them know how hard is it for you to see him around her... and ask why did they hire him?
if they love his work and want to keep him, just make sure when he is at your parents home working you do not visit...
remember he is only someone who works for your parents and not your ex wife husband , at least when he is there working...
now relax...
2006-07-17 13:21:21 · answer #8 · answered by Me 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Uhhh, I would be mad also. I'm sure there are other gardners your parents could have picked.
2006-07-17 13:20:09 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude he is the damn,gardener He is no prize and if your Ex lets him work there then most likely she still in love with you.
2006-07-17 13:43:09 · answer #10 · answered by gracie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋