We have had sex a million times cuz we've been together for 3 years but its like I dont really enjoy it all that much. I think he is sexy and everything but when we have sex he doesnt last any longer than 10 minutes. I'll get 15-20 minutes if I'm lucky! And I never end up having an orgasm. I masturbate throughout the week and sometimes even right before I go see him! What is wrong with all of this?
2006-07-17 13:15:34 · 14 answers · asked by BigBrownEyez 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, maybe you're just not into him anymore. Do some thinking and decide what it is that you really want....maybe you shouldn't be with him anymore. Are you happy in the relationship, besides the sexual aspect?
2006-07-17 13:19:42 · answer #1 · answered by Jen 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Clearly he either doen't know that he's not making you happy, or he doesn't care. Have you told him that you have no trouble having orgasms, he's just not giving them to you? Have you suggested things he could do to do so? Or have you been faking orgasms? If he didn't know, I suggest you tell him (if possible without bruising his ego) and the two of you work on changing things so that you get as much (if not more) fun out of sex with him as he does. But if he knows but doesn't care, you need a new boyfriend.
2006-07-17 13:24:02 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if ur not enjoying the sex then maybe you need to figure out why that is. Get sex toys and sexy lingerie - spice things up. If all else fails, tell him you need a break.
2006-07-17 13:17:36 · answer #3 · answered by bobissorad 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-10 09:05:18 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
10 minutes?.....thats ur problem , he's not taking his time to make sure u are satisfied ..its all about him. i understand u love him but he is being very selfish..u need to sit him down and talk to him .. a real gentalman would make sure u r satisfied b 4 he is. u say u masturbate ok talk to him let him know what he needs to do to help u achieve a orgasm..u know ur body better than anyone......u have to communicate!
2006-07-17 13:33:21 · answer #5 · answered by wildspirit1313 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to talk to him about this- he should be just as focused on pleasing you as he is on pleasing himself. If the time is a problem, try having him masturbate before you have sex- it'll help him last longer. Spend more time on foreplay, too.
Good luck. :)
2006-07-17 13:20:14 · answer #6 · answered by Not Allie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave him. Or right before he is done, pull away and say--here let me finish and Masterbat e yourself in front of him! Now that would be a twist.
I think your normal
2006-07-17 13:24:16 · answer #7 · answered by Handsup 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
every try making the foreplay last longer? me and my girl get the foreplay going for at least 30 minutes before we get down the dirty dirty.
2006-07-17 13:20:14 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The same thing that is wrong with all women. You don't explain how you want to be pleased. So men quit asking and proceed to please themselves.
We will listen, but you are not helping. So you get what you deserve.
2006-07-17 13:18:44 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are both young. You do not have to do any of this if you do not want to. You have your whole life ahead of you.
2006-07-17 13:19:55 · answer #10 · answered by adobeprincess 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋