like a family member or BF or GF? Did anyone you love ever tell you they hated u? My BF told me hated me cuz i confronted him about cheating on me with a girl then he said he hated me adn that hurt me so much...
2006-07-17 13:10:13 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes. I am pretty sure most people have done that at one point or another in their lives. Hate is a very strong emotion, quite a bit closer to love than most people think. The actual opposite of love is indifference. That is why you say you hate an ex during the "painful" period but once you finally get over them you have no feelings toward that person.
2006-07-17 13:17:06 · answer #1 · answered by krisaquarius 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I have. I would guess that everyone has done this. We all say things that we don't mean when we are not thinking and just responding from our anger or frustration. I would tell you that I am so sorry that it hurt your feelings, but remember that you didn't do anything wrong if he cheated on you, or thought he did, and you confronted him. If he said he hated you, it sounds to me that he is just mad that he got caught. I would seriously consider ending this now before you allow him to cause you any more pain, you deserve alot better and there are plenty of guys out there who don't cheat. Good luck to you.
2006-07-17 20:16:15 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hate is a pretty strong emotion (right up there with love)...there aren't very many people in the world that I hate...and no, I don't recall ever telling anyone (even in anger) that I hated them...I'm a "say what you mean, mean what you say" kind of person so that one wouldn't fall out of my mouth very easily...although I might hate what someone does or says, and that I'd have no problem telling them...
2006-07-17 20:13:52 · answer #3 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I honestly think that the only reason that he said that was because he was really angry or upset with you(not saying you did anything wrong).But if you don't have any real proof then that could mean that he thinks you don't trust him.Talk it over but don't start out by accusing him just calm down and talk about it.
2006-07-17 20:15:11 · answer #4 · answered by Brittany G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I just told my boyfriend that I hated him. He said He couldn't believe I said that and I must have meant it to some extent because hate is such a strong word. But I don't I just don't want to see myself without him because I love him so much. God I wish I could take it back. He still loves me but I wish I could take it back.
2006-07-17 20:15:11 · answer #5 · answered by shakia27 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
gurl i know the way you feel that happened to me once my bf told me he hated me when we had an arguement but in a week he called nad said he was sorry but we kinda getting trouhgt it now maybe you should do the same wait for him to tell you sorry orr you tell him
2006-07-17 20:16:00 · answer #6 · answered by crazy4u 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea
2006-07-17 20:12:36 · answer #7 · answered by kumquat.2004 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋