What do you do?

Question

What do you do when you havnt talked to your boyfriend for 2 days, and every time you call his cell phone its turned off. I also cant go over to his house because i live soo far away. He is most of the time always busy. I miss him soo much and i almost cry every night becuase i cant talk to him. I know he's not doing anything bad behind my back, because he always tells me that he would never do that, and he hasnt. I have been with him for a strong 2 months. I also dont want to breakup with him, because i love him to much. What should i do while i wait for him.???

PLEASE KNOW STUPID ANSWERS!!

Answer 1

I would definitely take the time when I was not with him and do other useful things. Chores and homework, of course (blech) but also things like:

family time - get to know your parents and siblings

hobby time - learn one if you have to

time with your other friends.

It'll make the time fly by and you won't feel the need to call him all the time.

Answer 2

You've only been with him for 2 months, and now he hasn't called in 2 days. That tells me this guy just isn't that into you. How do I know this without knowing you two? It's very simple. When a guy is truly into you, he calls you, whether his phone breaks or not. He finds a phone. Even if he's busy, he takes 2 minutes out of his day to say hello because he WANTS to hear your voice. After 2 months, if he's not calling, this relationship is crashing and burning. He's not emotionally available to you right now, and for what reason I don't know...there could be many. Stop crying over this guy. He's probably not crying about you. If you mattered that much to him, he'd pick up the phone. Yes, be angry. You really should be. I wouldn't stand for that kind of treatment. Move on!

Answer 3

Okay sweetie take this well. Sweetie all you can do is wait. Honestly, you sound quite over anxious and just really need to relax. If he said nothing is happening, then nothing is happening. Please don't jump to conclusions there could be various reasons why his phone is off (i.e. unpaid bill, in a meeting, or sleep). Also I feel the need to tell you this.....BREATHE. Relax, I am not the person too tell you how you feel but 2 months (strong or not) is a little premature to be soo dependent on the person. I deeply feel that you should give him a little space and find a hobby. Trust me you will feel better and he won't feel smothered. Because if he feels smothered then you will be alone.

Answer 4

I had the same problem, but i definately won't breakup with him becuz that was what i did and i found out i made a huge mistake and after you done it you regret. But if you are waiting for him and you also want to see him, and you are waiting, why dont you make a move and beg to try to go over to his place. And his phone doesnt work.... this might sound tacky but you know his address, why not write a letter( that i can gurentee he gets it ). When you wait, go hangout with you girls. Maybe make a party and invite him over he will def come.

Answer 5

well it is hard cause two months can seem forever and can feel like you already know a person, but honey i was with a guy that i loved with all my heart and he one day would tell me that he was a seasonal guy and broke up with me, and then came back to me to when he was ready to be with me again. i had to stop it. guys say alot of things and go back on thier words, so being that it has only been two months i bet you dont know everything about him that you should know or he would not be doing this to you. and dont be surprised on what kind of exuse he comes up with. before you let yourself get anymore attached to him, find out who he is and how he works , then you can do an assesment on if he is realy what you want. cause a guy does not just not return your calls like that, there is a reason and he might never tell you the truth. good luck, talk to him and tell him that you want to know if he wants to be with you, that you dont want him to feel like he has to lie to you and do things behind your back, that you just want to know the truth, that if he cant do that then your waisting eachothers time. there are other guys out there so dont completly set your eyes on this guy unless you know for sure that he is worth your time.

Answer 6

After a long life of breakups etc,I have given the Lord first palce In my life and he has sent me to be my wife a very wonderfull woman I can not ask for better.

I would spend my free time praying and letting the Lord take charge and get to know the goodness of Christ Jesus

Answer 7

Ok i'm really sorry to have to tell you this but the same thing happend to me only my bf didn't call me for 2 months. All summer long I waited for a call and he didn't. It made me mad and I'm pretty sure I'm gonna break up with him. If it keeps going on like this take it into consideration that he lied to you. He could be doing things behind your back and told you he wasn't. He's a man honey. He's gonna lie to you.

Answer 8

wait a week. call him, if he doesn't answer, leave a message saying you think you should end it

if he asks you why say "i feel like yu were shutting me out, am i really that annoying?"
if he wants you, he'll ask you out.
tell him it's over the second he starts doing that again, and if was meant to be, it was meant to be.

oh this is a chick. i'm on my dad's name my e-mail is [e-mail] <--if you wanna talk. i've been there.

Answer 9

hate to tell you this if he has a cell he either has the ringer off as he has moved on with his life with out you or changed the number so you cant call

Answer 10

i think he may have already lied to you.a guy in love will always want his girlfriend to get a hold of him.only someone who has already cheated turns his cell off.you should make it a point to surprise him one day.go see for yourself if he is in fact being true to you.my bet is that you will be sadly disappointed. i hope not but he sounds suspicious to me.hope this helps.