i just broke up with my bf, i love him and he loves me still. should we get back together or should i just go on about my buisness and say the **** with him and the way he feels about me?
2006-07-17 12:42:47 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You obviously broke up with him for some reason. When you break up with someone, it's natural for you and the other party to have some feelings with each other. I think you should take some time to yourself before going back to a relationship that you broke up for some reason.
2006-07-17 12:47:16 · answer #1 · answered by Passion 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends. why did you all break up and is it really love or it just a rebound for either one of you. does he make you happy. you should let him know how you feel and see what he has to say. you should never say the f%$k with somone you love and should always think about how he makes you feel, what he does to make you happy, etc. If there is something that has happened for you all to break up, think about it and ask yourself if that one thing that caused you all to break up is something that you are both willing to work through and if what happened between you'll out weighs how he makes you feel about yourself, the way he looks at you and whatever else he does for you. Do you really want to loose that. If so go for it. If not you and he should just move on. You both have to be willing to forgive for what happened and learn a lesson from it. Dont let it be a stumbling block. I am going through something similar to that right now and have learned quite a few lessons from everything that happened.
2006-07-17 12:56:45 · answer #2 · answered by lbenoit_53 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends on what the terms of the break up were and if u were truly happy with him. I mean if he cheated on you or was abusive to you then maybe it is better to move on or if there was some kind of inreconciable differences. I mean there are many reasons why people break up but if it was for something totally stupid and you still want to be with him and he still wants to be with you go for it but really examine the break up and the situation that u both are in before you go jumping back in. Make sure that being with him is what you really want i mean i am sure that u are both going to love and care about each other for a while but sometimes it truly is not worth going back to him.
2006-07-17 12:49:46 · answer #3 · answered by psycholilblondegirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why did you break up with him in the first place? If you had a good reason, keep on steppin'. If you didn't have a good reason and you still want to be with him, go back. It's as simple as that.
2006-07-17 12:47:00 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why'd you brake up with him in the first place? If there's something wrong...go your own ways. If it's all okay then you shouldn't have broken up with him to begin with. Follow your heart!
2006-07-17 12:47:06 · answer #5 · answered by jammer4207 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you still have feeling's for him then why did you brake up with him?It dosen't make since to me if you're just going to get back together.
2006-07-17 12:46:10 · answer #6 · answered by Angel sent from heaven 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why did you break up....this could play a huge part in it....?
I would make a pro's and con's list...what do you like about your relationship..what don't you like about your relationship ...and then discuss it with him..then make your decision together...
2006-07-17 12:45:11 · answer #7 · answered by sleddinginthesnow 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he loves you and you love him than what is really going on i really don't quite understand what you are saying.It sort of sounds like you are confused
2006-07-17 12:49:06 · answer #8 · answered by precious73@verizon.net 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it doesn't work the first time, what makes you think it'll be any different the second time around?
Think about it.
2006-07-17 12:50:26 · answer #9 · answered by jeanne1120 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
personally go for what ya heart tells you because you are in the situation good luck!
2006-07-17 12:45:24 · answer #10 · answered by Faraasa 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋