I'm 15 about to turn 16 in a few months and I found out i'm pregnant. My 10 year old step-sister Kerri also knows and is threating to tell my parents.
2006-07-17 12:38:51 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
My boyfriend does know and he did say he was ok with it.
2006-07-17 13:05:44 · update #1
Tell your parents before she does. Be the better person. Deal with the consequences with your actions. If you feel uncomfortable talking to your parents about this (but come now, they'll notice and you can't get an abortion without consent), talk to a counselor with your parents there. Or just a counselor then your parents.
2006-07-17 12:41:26 · answer #1 · answered by Passion 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I was in a situation very similar to yours. I was 15 when I got pregnant. The hardest part is telling your parents, but they need to know so that they can help you get the medical attention that you need to make sure that you and your baby are healthy.
In truth it is just a matter of time before they will find out.. either your sister will spill the secret or your parents will notice the changes in your body because your whole body shifts to help the baby grow. Plus you will have some issues with symptoms, if you havent already started having them...your sense of smell will be different and a lot of smells might make you sick at the stomach.
Your parents love you and want the best for you. They will be hurt and maybe even angry at first, but the will get over it and then begin to focus on helping you get through this tough time in your life.
I wish you well. You can make it. This is not the end of the world, you learn from your past so that you can make better decisions in your future. Always focus on doing the best you can at doing what you know is right according to God's Word.
If you are scared to tell your parents, and then maybe you trust your pastor and his wife to help you break the news to your parents or maybe a teacher or guidance counselor at your school.
Jesus Loves you. Stay encouraged during this situtation. I know that you can get through it because I did. I am now 36 years old and my daugher is 20. I went on to finish high school, and graduated from college and even went on to graduate school and got a Master's degree....just so that I could prove to all the people that told me that my life was over could see, that I could get my life back on track after a mistake (having sex before marriage).
God is with you always.
2006-07-17 12:58:29 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to talk to your parents and be ready for the consequences that are going to come. Don't get mad when they blow up, you have to look at the situation. It is going to be hard. Your so young and now you have a baby on the way. You can do it. Just sit there and listen to all the mess they are going to say because you know they have your best interest. Make sure you apologize for making this mistake. I think that your boyfriend should be there with you. You shouldn't have to take all the heat by yourself. Your in my prayers
2006-07-17 13:36:42 · answer #3 · answered by colleyshey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is not something you want to let your step-sister tell your parents. i know ur scared, but at this point, you have no other choice. your parents will be upset, sure, but they'll still love you and will support you through these hard times. you'll be amazed how much better feel once you tell them and you will need all the friends and family you could possibly have around you. assuming that you will keep this child, your main priority should be prenatal care. you need to schedule an appointment ASAP! from this point on, life will be about that baby! was wondering about the father-does he know about this pregnancy and how does he feel about it?
2006-07-17 13:01:56 · answer #4 · answered by baybeegrl5 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, first of all, if you are going to be a mom, you need to suck it up, and be mature about it,and face your parents, scared or not scared, you need to tell them asap. You are going to need all the help and support you can get, the first months can be very tough, and you need to be stress free, so please, get it out of the way, and tell your parents before they hear it from someone else...sweety, you are just too young, but now is the time to grow up and deal with your mistakes and problems. A baby is not something you can find or be afraid of, you asked for it if you went around opening your legs.
2006-07-17 12:43:47 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Although it will not be the easiest thing for you to do. I strongly encourgae you to go to your parents and explain your situation.
Its the best road to take since you are still so young...
Expect of course that they will be displeased and extremely disappointed, however, in the end, they love you and want whats best for you. They will know the best routes to take once a decision has been reached on whether or not you keep the baby.
Good luck!
2006-07-17 12:50:52 · answer #6 · answered by StephanieKTaylor 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all u really need to tell ur parents. if ur parents find out from ur lil sis they will be more angry than if u told them urself.next if u don't want to keep it then do not abort the baby give it up for adoption and help out those who can't have children. third if u decide to keep the baby then if ur old enough to get a job then get one so u don't have to ask ur parents for everythin to take care of the baby, if ur not old enough then once u turn old enough then do it. but i hope u decide to do the right thing and not get in trouble more than neccesary but g/l and congrats.
2006-07-17 12:45:49 · answer #7 · answered by mochachinalatte18 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You must tell your parents now. You are pregnant, and sadly you now have to grow up fast, and the 1st step to do so is to be responsible enough to tell your parents on your own terms, rather that having them find out, and having to confront you.
2006-07-17 12:44:43 · answer #8 · answered by MC 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to talk to your parents about the situation. Are you still with the boy? If so, maybe you can have him talk to your parents with you if it is someone they get along with. You will feel much better after you get the stress off of your chest. Just be prepared for their reactions, you might be surprised though.
2006-07-17 12:46:31 · answer #9 · answered by 2girls 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can't hide it forever, tell your parents! yes they will yell, be angry, and want to castrate the boy. but you'll feel better with that burden off of you!
you need to tell them tonight, not at dinner, actually no better time then the present. don't tell them you are, tell them you think you might be, that may ease it a bit, then they can take you to a doctor get it checked out for sure ... even if you know for sure. then you can move on with your life and what ever choices come at you.
They will still be mad at you. but they won't kick you out,your family will still love you. even if you make stupid choices.
2006-07-17 12:45:55 · answer #10 · answered by kcracer1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋