k so there is this one boy i want so bad at my place of employment. I'm about to go to college in another state he is going to college in the same town and is dating a girl i don't know who will still be in highschool. Everytime we are together there is so much "sexual tension between us" we are always touching and cuddleing and we get so close to kissing. slash he calls me all the time and we tell each other we want each other.
I have been the girl who has her boyfriend cheat on her so many times and i always swore i would never do that to someone but now i'm going to school I don't want him as a boyfriend I just want to kiss those amazing lips atleast once before I leave this town.
Think I should go for it...
If i don't I know i will regret it...or do u think i will regret kissing a guy with a girlfriend and being "that girl"
opinions please
be nice...
2006-07-17 12:33:57 · 15 answers · asked by Coxie Megan 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you do kiss him you may create more questions and problems for the both of you. What if you both want a relationship afterwords? What if only one of you does? This could screw up your friendship too. If you're going away and don't think you could deal with any of these problems don't do it. If you think you can go for it.
2006-07-17 12:40:43 · answer #1 · answered by Nicholas C 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
To be nice. DON'T DO IT! Respect that he's with a girl and set boundaries. Stop talking to him fro great lengths of time, stop hanging out alone and putting you both in the tempting situation. If you continue in this pattern, you are eventually going to be a homewrecker after being with a married man. Respect him, his GF and yourself.
There are a lot of other guys out there WITHOUT attachments, but that doens't mean you should just jump in the sac with them either. You need to get some self respect and not allow these guys to continue in their idiotic ways and hurt the girls that have given their hearts to them.
just back away and take a cold shower.
2006-07-17 12:39:46 · answer #2 · answered by Levi I 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
as a guy I won't help much but I've ulin the same situation with a gurl. DON'T do it ull really regret it. ull always know that u helped some guy cheat and u were desperate enough to do it. It's only a physical thing, ur going to college, how many hot guys will there be at college now? seriously don't do it ull regret it and u don't wanna be "that gurl"
2006-07-17 12:39:24 · answer #3 · answered by 2hot4u 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think If you are considering regret befor the fact, maybe you should spare yourself the guilt and go kiss some amazing guy who has no girlfriend.
Youll have regret either way...
but at least you can prove to be better than all the rest.
2006-07-17 12:38:43 · answer #4 · answered by el0hyim 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be like all the boys who have cheated on you. This guy may be acting like the perfect man with his girlfriend and then doing all of this flirting with you. Think if you were the other girl. I say think of all of the wonderful hot guys you will meet in college and just let this go. Your conscience will be happy you did so.
2006-07-17 12:37:21 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
(1) First of all, if he has a girlfriend, what are you doing "always touching and cuddling" with him? To his girlfriend, that would probably already be considered cheating! (2) Two, it's a bad idea to get romantically involved with anyone from your place of employment. (3) Three, if you are determined to kiss him goodbye and you're trying to appear to not be cheating, kiss him goodbye at your goodbye party in front of everybody.
2006-07-17 12:41:08 · answer #6 · answered by wickedvicked1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
With no chance for a relationship to build on? Just for a single kiss? Forget it! You'll regret it. Move on. You'll forget this guy in a few weeks.
2016-03-26 22:03:51 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say noooooooo,because he shouldnt be wanting to be with another woman If he Is with someone else.That Is low life and there Is another woman He Is being unfaithfull to.
His character Is scummy and You Can Do Better.
Have some pride In yourself and pray that the Lord Jesus Christ Lead you ok
2006-07-17 12:38:48 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he cared and "wanted" you so bad, he would have dumped his girlfriend don't you think?? I mean you are probably to him the "other girl" the one he can mess around with while his girlfriend is the one he will respect and care about. So, if you want sincere answers then I tell ya you shouldn't kiss him, make him drool over you but don't give him the pleasure!
2006-07-17 12:37:44 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would say yes. but really think about it, if she knew! and also think about it if u were her, he'd be playin both of ya'll so get rid of him and warn that girl that hes messing around w/other girls. sorry this isnt probably what you 'wanted' to hear but i think its what you should do.
2006-07-17 12:37:56 · answer #10 · answered by Angela 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋