I have been talking with a guy for over a month, and speaking with him makes me happier than anything at the moment. He invited me to go with him to an outing with him and his friends, which is about an hour and a half away from here. I'm not sure if I should go or not.
2006-07-17 12:28:49 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
go have some fun, he must like you are he wouldnt of ask you to go, get to know him an his friends own one trip, take a cell phone are ask him if you can drive an him ride with you , incase things get out of hand an you want to leave,
2006-07-17 12:32:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you have only known him for a month you should be very careful he might seem like a great guy but you never know if you really really really want to go ask a girlfriend to come along since his friends are going as well but personally i dont think you should go alone because you dont really know this guy and barely know his friends just be careful
2006-07-17 19:33:51 · answer #2 · answered by nikkig813 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would not go if all his friends that are going is just guys. I would wait and get to know his friends with another one of your friends. You never know what you are setting yourself up with. He may act totally different with you around his friends. Guys hate to be razzed by their buds, so they will go along with treating someone bad even if they don't feel the same way.
I would tell him that you have to take a rain check, and maybe after you meet all of his friends, then go with what your gut tells you. But be careful.
2006-07-17 19:38:29 · answer #3 · answered by kazoo1991 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know how old you are, but I would recommend against this. You need to meet this guy face to face and get to know him better before you let him get you that far from home. Remember, when you're that far away, your options are limited, and even if the guy is great, his friends may not be.
Also, if you are a minor, you need to speak with your parents about this.
2006-07-17 19:33:24 · answer #4 · answered by DAC 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I suggest that you dont go that far away If you go with him may It be somewhere close to home and pray about It first and ask the Lord to guide your path
2006-07-17 19:32:05 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
over a month? if u really wana go, then go with a friend... just to be safe... if u can wait, u should really keep talking to him until u get to KNOW him well and that ur safe with him... then u can go with him without hesitating...
2006-07-17 19:32:09 · answer #6 · answered by boy8genius 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if this is a guy you'v never hung out with...or his friends he's bring are guys...i say bring a friend ...or maybe bring 2 friends that are dating....never be alone, just not a good idea
2006-07-17 19:31:58 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go! why wouldnt you? it would be fun and you guys can get to hang out with each other.
2006-07-17 19:33:23 · answer #8 · answered by MICHELLY 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
baby girl, is this the first date? can you bring a friend with you? why can't he come to see you and have your parents check him out first? i don't know, i don't have a warm feeling about this.
2006-07-17 19:35:51 · answer #9 · answered by harmony 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you've never met him before (aka online dating) don't go. tell him you'd be more comfortable if he came somewhere nearby with you AND some of your mates. If you have met him, then consider how much you trust him.
2006-07-17 19:32:00 · answer #10 · answered by Andrea 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋