could it actually be love? or perhaps lust?
2006-07-17 12:28:20 · 13 answers · asked by SuperGirls™ 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Absolutely, hun. I'm in a relationship with an even larger age discrepancy and we're both very happy, and very much in love.
2006-07-17 12:56:35 · answer #1 · answered by Amanda Renee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
7 times out of 10 I think that it may be a lust issue. It's a possibility that maybe the 21 year old makes him feel like he's 21 again. Being 30 years old myself I have been in a relationship with someone that was 21 and he did make me feel younger, but unfortunately in the end it didn't work, b/c I was at a different point in my life where I was ready to settle down and he wasn't (which is understandable). So of course I am not saying that it wouldn't work, but I think that maybe a 37 and a 21 year old are too "many miles apart" to really have a successful relationship. But anything is possible
2006-07-17 12:38:31 · answer #2 · answered by Ms. Hot Chocolate 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is possible, but maybe he's a little immature. The real question is how long could this relationship last and still be good for both people. If you both want the same things out of life and work together to get it I don't see a problem.
2006-07-17 12:35:40 · answer #3 · answered by DJ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're both adults, so yeah. Age doesn't matter when you connect with someone. My dad was 19 years older than my mother and they were totally in love. They'd still be together today if my mother hadn't died from cancer. So definitely! Go with your instincts. If it feels like love, then it probably is.
2006-07-17 12:35:14 · answer #4 · answered by shynomore 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lust perhaps but you can see if it actually love buy looking into his hart and see if he is welling to go the extra mile for you on a daily bases...
2006-07-17 12:34:40 · answer #5 · answered by celticdragon 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love knows no age...on a practical note though maturity plays a big part, as does similar interests and experiences in life. Go for it!
2006-07-17 12:34:24 · answer #6 · answered by morganga1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea love is very powerful but the only thing that its really interested in is telling u if its ur true love or not! u can always depend on ur heart to lead u in the right direction and yea its probably true love!
2006-07-17 13:25:25 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes it can happen... love is open-minded... age shouldnt stop love its not possible...
about love or lust? its for u to find out...
2006-07-17 12:34:20 · answer #8 · answered by boy8genius 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
both are possible. Age is just a number sweetie
2006-07-17 12:33:04 · answer #9 · answered by Andrea 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it could be love...anythings possible.
2006-07-17 12:33:49 · answer #10 · answered by moonshine 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋