Why is it that everytime I have a female friend, we get along great, I tell her about other girls I'm interested in and we hang out and have fun... but the minute i sleep with them, they turn all pshyco and start acting like they are my GF or something. They knew how i was in the first place, and it's not like I lie to them. Why cant we stay friends?
2006-07-17 12:23:25 · 17 answers · asked by VetteLeo 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
everytime you sleep with a girl they get something called the "cuttle bug" its actully something that triggers in there brain and they become more attached even if u do state your expectations before, they hope that someway thell be able 2 win over you heart not just your body.
sex is ment for making a relationship stronger
2006-07-17 12:29:37 · answer #1 · answered by Crystal S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmm.. Einstein. Well, the moment you sleep with them they turn psycho by wanting to be your gf??
Maybe the problem is, you are pretending to be friends with these girls and then slowly after a while sleeping with them and abusing the friendship by giving them hope that there may be a relationship there. Do you want a friend or an f buddy??
Cause if you want an f buddy, don't lie and say u want to be friends. Take responsibility for what you really want. Women put emotional attachments on sex. So, if you are trying to have casual sex and no strings, it usually doesn't work.
2006-07-17 12:29:40 · answer #2 · answered by Kitty 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Female's are territorial, just like guys are at times. They start to feel a connection with the guy and start becoming possessive. Not just as friends, but they feel if they start screwing up the guys relationship with the mans gf they'll be the next for grabs.
But if you let the female friends know that that's all you want is just friendship, meaning NO FLIRTING WITH THEM, or giving Any sign of interest in THEM they will just keep it as friends. Its not always a bad thing. But it can lead to trouble, especially if your lady friend, GF means more to you than what your friends want them to be, keep close tabs on both.
2006-07-17 12:31:36 · answer #3 · answered by missbehave252002 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
whats up, i do no longer think of there is any choose so which you could provide up so actually. It does seem problematic on you that 2 acquaintances have enable you to down those days, however the timing is probable coincidental... do attempt to no longer get too cut back up approximately it in case you could. possibly take a back seat for a on an identical time as, have some plenty-necessary time to your self, then once you sense refreshed and beneficial you could try achieving out to human beings back and organising new friendships. I do understand the way problematic it is, now and back it basically looks as though the full worldwide is against you. it is not your fault, so attempt to recollect that and optimistically it's going to get greater effective given a sprint time.
2016-10-08 00:58:23 · answer #4 · answered by fritch 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you sleeping with ALL your female friends? That could be it I guess? Because I've had plenty of guy friends who've told me about their conquests and all the details, and I've never gotten mad. In fact I enjoy that they consider me one of the guys enough to tell me, and I enjoy hearing their perspectives. My guess is that you tend to gravitate toward certain types of girls, girls that will confirm your belief that all girls are psycho. People in general tend to do this - they tend to surround themselves with things and people who will confirm the way they see, or want to see, the world. There are plenty of girls out there that ARE NOT like that. Your guess is as good as mine to why you aren't hanging out with them.
And if the problem is that you are sleeping with everyone - all your female friends - let me ask you a question - how would you feel if the girls were telling you about all the guys they were sleeping with besides you? You know, maybe some of the girls are a little concerned about getting STDs too!
2006-07-17 12:31:28 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is the last thing that y ou want to do with a girl who is a friend everything is great while you guys are friends you guys are "buddies" but then when you cross that line they are going to turn very possesive and nothing will ever return to how it was before. It is very difficult for a girl to remain friends because once you have crossed that line she sees you and think that you see her more than a friend and that y ou want more than just a friendship
and finally the physco part is part of the anger
2006-07-17 12:29:55 · answer #6 · answered by nikkig813 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's just like I always say girls and guys can't be just friends. One might be thinking it's just a friendship and the other one will be thinking it's something more and that your throwing hints. You have to be careful what you say and do to us girls cause we operate in our emotions. If you have sex with someone they become a part of you spiritually and emotionally. A girl would automatically think your an item if you communicated with her alot then had sex with her. It's just normal.
2006-07-17 12:31:39 · answer #7 · answered by HeArtBr0Ken... 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe they saw something in you that you didn't, and really end up liking you even though- you go out alot. Try to keep friends friends and girlfriends separate.
2006-07-17 12:29:38 · answer #8 · answered by hippy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you really want to stay friends, STOP sleeping with them.. its not like you dont know what is going to happen. you know how they're gonna get in the first place.
2006-07-17 12:27:08 · answer #9 · answered by Storm 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
like Billy Crystal said in When Harry Met Sally, you can't be friends with women.
2006-07-17 12:26:35 · answer #10 · answered by rollo_tomassi423 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋