2006-07-17 12:17:53 · 4 answers · asked by muellerdavidallen 1 in Education & Reference ➔ Home Schooling
Next time, confine your "headline" question to the number of characters allowed, and put the rest in the "details" section.
But why EXPRESSING anger is out of place, even when the other person is clearly in the wrong, is that you lose what moral advantage you have if you lose your temper. If, on the other hand, you are cold as ice, and 100% logical, you can tell them exactly how badly they screwed up, and do it in a normal tone of voice that does not hurt your throat, and be ten times as effective as someone who blows his top. No doubt you've had that experience yourself from the receiving end. The teacher or parent who shouts is someone to simply ignore. The teacher who explains, quietly, that you are in deep trouble and there is not much hope that you have enough brains to get yourself out of it -- that you gotta listen to.
2006-07-17 12:26:21 · answer #1 · answered by auntb93again 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
anger is not the probelm, it is what you do with that anger. Screaming , yelling, throwing a tantrum does not accomplish anything- the other person will just get defensive and you will not get heard, they will react and you wont hear them and it will be an endless chaotic battle that gets nowhere .There are times when a person has every right to be angry-you should go to that person calmly and explain how whatever they did made you feel, let them know that you are angry and you need the situation to be resolved but don't 'attack' with anger- once you do that the other person is going to go into self defense mode and you will be talking (or yelling) in vain. Find constructive and productive ways to express your anger and bring resolution to the problem so that it does not happen again or at least the other person is aware of attitudes and behavior that causes others pain.
2006-07-17 19:23:57 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I like to go up to my room and either silently scream, or hard screaming (but not for too long) to let all my tension out, and sometimes cry. I feel much better then.
2006-07-18 00:35:37 · answer #3 · answered by Elizabeth T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its always ok to be angry its all aobut how you handle the anger
2006-07-17 19:21:09 · answer #4 · answered by barbie89032 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋