I have known this man for several years. We work together but live in separate cities so we only see each other several times a year. When we do we seem to have an intense sexual chemistry, make alot od eye contact, flirt, he touches me a lot, he has all the classic flirting signs.
We have emailed off and on over the years. He has told me he likes me, he told me he cares for me, but when I call him on anything he tells me I have miscontrued his words or actions.
I stopped emailing him and the next time I saw him he told me he like me and wanted to keep in touch.
(we have never had sex)
I really like him and think about him all the time, so a week or so later I wrote to him and he didn't respond.
What is his deal?
2006-07-17 12:13:53 · 13 answers · asked by daisy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No not married
Definitely not gay
told me his girlfirend moved out
2006-07-17 12:22:26 · update #1
It seems to me that he wants you so, but has some reason not to act on it. Maybe he has someone else. When the temptation gets too great, or he starts to think about leaving his girl, he acts on it. When he gets a better hold on himself, or they make up, he back peddals. That's my take on it.
2006-07-17 12:21:59 · answer #1 · answered by Chris D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is married and you are playing with a fire called adultery. You will end up with a broken heart. When he is near his wife he gets his strength. When he is near you, the devil tempts him. If he falls, he would be bound with guilt and would hate you for that.
Leave him alone and ask God to let you know whose missing rib you have in your body. Each man has a missing rib implanted in one woman only. The dog-like sniff is a sign that a man is confusing Lust for Agape. Trust me: I was a terrible sniffer until I found my senses and my missing rib.
Boaz.
2006-07-17 12:22:14 · answer #2 · answered by Boaz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He could be married, but even if he's not, he doesn't seem worth your time. I always put myself out there once - tell a guy my intentions, and that I'm interested. If he doesn't start pursuing from there, that is his loss, and that's all the effort I put forth.
2006-07-17 12:17:52 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is a flirt and doesn't want a real relationship, keep it light, its going no where. Let him do the chasing or forget about it. When you see him flirt with somebody else too.
2006-07-17 12:21:53 · answer #4 · answered by jo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do the reality check on this guy first.
Find out what he is telling you is true, and make the phone calls to prove it.
Find out everything you can about him. Don't be shy. It is important.
When your clear on everything, then he is just waiting for you to respond .
The power is in your eyes.
2006-07-17 12:17:16 · answer #5 · answered by snorkelman_37 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
call him and ask him direct i think this is the only way you will find out how he feels..i cant figure out a deal here or even how he is thinking...so go on give him a call. sort it out once and for all. i mean what have you got to lose.
2006-07-17 12:18:53 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i had unswers lots of questions like that today ,,, this proof one thing that the guys gender had become dangrous for the comuinity ,,, !!!
2006-07-17 12:21:36 · answer #7 · answered by Nicholet 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he might be away from the computer. go see him in person. talk to him.
2006-07-17 12:16:55 · answer #8 · answered by Mike K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know what to tell you
2006-07-17 12:17:24 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
married?
2006-07-17 12:16:50 · answer #10 · answered by justmeadude43 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋