2006-07-17 12:01:50 · 33 answers · asked by vegaz6 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
If I couldn't take care of it and wanted it to have a normal, healthy life, yes.
2006-07-17 12:05:07 · answer #1 · answered by Oneofthesedays 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sometimes adoption maybe the only answer. I'm not a believer in abortion. I feel that if you're too young and you could not provide a decent life for your family/child, then maybe it might be the best thing for you and your child. Some people avoid adoption for selfish reason...they 'know' they can care for the baby...their family is going to help or fully take care of the child...they don't want to go through the pain of child birth, etc. Give the child a chance to have the best life possible! There are so many loving, caring people out there who have fabulous careers, make plenty of money, etc who can't have children of their own. I always have felt adoption is the best option if you have any questions or concerns about your ability to provide for your child. And, if you don't want to go through making this decision, make sure you use the proper birth control. :) I'm in the process of adopting my step niece as her mother (my step sister) is addicted to heroin and her father is in prison. They know that this is the best option for her to have a good life and they know she's already been through alot. Just always do what is best for the child. OK...I'm now off my soapbox. ;) lol
2006-07-17 12:22:37 · answer #2 · answered by Kendra Leigh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, I don't think I could handle having a child and not being there to watch it grow. Although, I might be saying something different if I didn't like kids, or want kids, or was a pregnant teenager! But I think that adoption is a great idea if you get pregnant and know that you'll be unable to give the child loving and safe environment. In that way it's a responsible thing to do.
2006-07-17 12:12:49 · answer #3 · answered by Chandy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I Ever Have Kids I Would Never Give My Kids To Adoption....I Dont Think So....!!!! Wats The Use Carring A Kid In Ur Belly For 9 Months Going Through Symtoms Then Go Through Pain And Give Up Ur Kids....Dats Just Realli Wrong!
2006-07-17 12:05:58 · answer #4 · answered by drz_rican_babygirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't because I know I will be able to provide for my children. If I were young or unable to provide a good life, I would give a child up for adoption. It would be the greatest gift you could give that child and the couple. Abortion is not an option for me.
2006-07-17 12:05:40 · answer #5 · answered by therego2 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only way is if i absolutely couldnt take care of the baby. I had a friend that kept her daughter until she was 2 years old and decided she didnt want her anymore because she wanted her freedom back..how pathetic is that. I have 2 kids and believe me that has been a thought for a split second. And then i look back at there baby pictures and look at them now when they have that big grin across there faces when i walk in the door from a long day at work..talk about a real high...its awesome!
2006-07-17 12:11:00 · answer #6 · answered by ashleygravley_18 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am a adopted and I am thank-full to God that my loving Adopted parents choose me....
A lot of of mothers have babies and when they turn 2 to teenagers they give them up to be fostered! cos they can't cope!
there are now more children in the 21st century in care and foster homes from the age of 2..... and there were 100 years ago!
but to your question....NO I wouldn't give up my child for all the tea in china!
2006-07-23 09:33:32 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on the circumstances. If I had no means to take care of my child I would. I would want her to have a better life than what I could provide for her. It is an act of love to give a child to someone who is more capable to take care of it. It doesn't mean that the child was unloved by the birth parents...just that they wanted better for her.
2006-07-17 12:04:57 · answer #8 · answered by optimistic_dr3am3r 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. I wouldn't because I know I am ready to be a mom. a few years ago, I would have been scared to death and would have considered it, but ulimately I don't think I would be able to carry a child for 9 months and have to say goodbye like that.
2006-07-17 12:06:26 · answer #9 · answered by kwinkle 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If I was young and not ready to raise a child I would. If it was something I didn't want, no money, etc....I would. Being married and with 4 children, I wouldn't now in my life. Good luck.
2006-07-17 12:29:00 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i wouldnt if ur considering hvaing a child then u keep the child you dont put it up for adoption unless say you got pregnant by accident then its your own fault face up to it and bring your child up!
2006-07-22 11:27:36 · answer #11 · answered by hunniewilko 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋