Is it wrong to like older guys when you are 19 years old. like gusy that are in their early 30's?
2006-07-17 12:01:19 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I am not looking for a sugar daddy or a father figure. I really really like this guy.
2006-07-17 12:07:30 · update #1
Ok my parents dis-like him (cause of his age). his parents are cool with it, they said if we are happy that is all that matters.
I didn't go out looking for him. it just happened we are on the Fire Dept. together i have known him for 1 1/2 yrs on there but i has like me a whole lot longer then that.
If i didn't know him from there i wouldn't even think about it.
2006-07-17 12:12:55 · update #2
I dont think its wrong at all lol (36 male )....
but seriously i dont, theyre is alot of men who like older women, so why not.
Its only wrongif you have a problem with it , or it is putting you in danger.
To me i look for a woman with the same level of maturity as myself
2006-07-17 12:07:29 · answer #1 · answered by robynbiker 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's fine to like older guys when you are 19. Who is Gusy? A guy? It is too much of an age difference if gusy is a guy. Stick to someone about two or three years older than you if you are determined to have an older guy.
2006-07-17 12:05:57 · answer #2 · answered by misty_blue2u 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not wrong. but most men in their 30's who are intelligent and have a great job and are worth dating, do not want a woman so young. They feel like they are baby sitting. I know how you feel, I wanted to date this guy who was 34 when I was 18 and he just told me very plainly "you're too young for me, I need more maturity in a woman".
I think men in their early to late 30's are the perfect age for any man.
2006-07-17 12:08:50 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont think its wrong. When i was 19, i dated a 34 yr old. It was fun for awhile but then he started acting older and older everyday. I think its a stage. Good Luck
2006-07-17 12:05:50 · answer #4 · answered by krsha79 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if you are mature enough for them then its fine but you start to realize that its fun to go through life with someone who is experiencing the same things you are. He's not going to be as excited when you buy your first car; he's been there. I think its more fun to learn together than to have someone who knows what its like already.
2006-07-17 12:10:02 · answer #5 · answered by Gorgeous 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No way...what's wrong is when a 16 year old girl likes men in their 30's....and besides, most women have been there...so I think it's just part of life
2006-07-17 12:06:18 · answer #6 · answered by Totally_Oblivious 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea hes like way older than u and much smarter u never know if he's seeing other women being that old its very possible try dating guys a little younger!
2006-07-17 12:07:39 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have always dated, and even married, older men. My fiance is 14 years older than I am. (I'm 37)
2006-07-17 12:09:01 · answer #8 · answered by long_ebony_locs 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't exactly say that it is WRONG....but it's not really a good idea to date someone that much older than you. He' old enough to be your father.....
2006-07-17 12:05:37 · answer #9 · answered by Fefe 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, it means that you are looking for a father figure or a sugar daddy
2006-07-17 12:05:02 · answer #10 · answered by moonstone 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋