I was having a verry rough day at work. Everything was going wrong, and i took it out on my girlfriend. I told her it was over, I realized it was a mistake. I asked her to forgive me and give me a second chance but shes like No. Do you guys think she should give me a chance or not.?
2006-07-17 11:59:37 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well tellin her it was over because of a hard day at work is kinda extreme... and overkill too.
I suggest that you send her flowers and tell her how sorry you are.. ask her if there's anything you can do to change things.
2006-07-17 12:03:23 · answer #1 · answered by PG 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I guess it would depend on how serious the realtionship was. I kno I have a hot temper sometimes, but my significant other always knos that the start of the relationship. I mean we all have our days, I don't know wat kind of day you were having but it most have been horrible. I think maybe she needs time to cool off because she is upset and shocked that you would go to an extreme measure. Maybe if you do something sweet like send her some flowers or something. Tell her your anger got the best of you and that you really didn't mean it and that you love her and care about her. I kno if it were me I wouldn't have even talked to you if I knew you were upset, because I probably would only fuel the fire. But give her some time and do something really nice and sweet to make it up. Also try to see someone about your anger you really may have a problem. just kno that if she does forgive you this time, next time you get upset, angry, or have a bad day she may not be so understanding and may not give you the time of day.
2006-07-17 19:08:35 · answer #2 · answered by Chelly Belly 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if she really LOVES you she would give you a other chance but also if you've been an asshole before and this aint the 1,2,3 time then maybe she wont give you a other chance because of the fact that she realize she dont need to put up with anyone **** especially when she hasnt done anything wrong for you or anyone to hurt her in any kinda way. If you really LOVE her talk to her and apologize for what you have put her through and hopefully she would give you a other chance HOPEFULLY.
2006-07-17 19:21:27 · answer #3 · answered by precious_vanessa_04 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope, cause then you think that you can always use her as an emotional punching bag. If you lose her, you will feel a great pain, and learn that you can't do that to anyone. You will appreciate your next girlfriend more. Thank your ex for trying to make you a better man.
Oh yeah, she's probably been wanting out for a while...and this is a good way to break it off with someone. She's already dating someone else I'm sure of it.
2006-07-17 19:04:15 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give her some time, maybe she will soften up. Send her some flowers and a nice stuffed animal-something cuddly. Apologize profusely. Call the local radio station & dedicate a song to her. Make her something-a cake or a poem.
And don't ever do anything that stupid again.
2006-07-17 19:03:24 · answer #5 · answered by silly_nut 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, no u took something that was totally not her fault out on her and then expect her to forgive u like that. just give it a few days and think about it
2006-07-17 19:09:00 · answer #6 · answered by sesso*E 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she shouldn't give you another chance if this behavior is a habit with you. That wouldn't be a healthy relationship for her to be in......... getting mad and taking it out on her is one thing but you broke up with her when she did nothing wrong........ that can only be a precedent of more bad behavior to come.
2006-07-17 19:05:35 · answer #7 · answered by Coodles 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends how long you have been together, if you have done this before. You can try, but it is up to her now. Don't go overboard, just try to show that you are working on what happened and you really care about her.
2006-07-17 19:16:17 · answer #8 · answered by True 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope, obviously you are a hot head with anger management issues and you'd only pull that crap on me once...good for her for not putting up with it.
As for you, hopefully you'll learn something from this experience and learn to leave work at work and not drag it home and into your personal life.
2006-07-17 19:02:18 · answer #9 · answered by Jennifer B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you may have pushed her to far with your words. Try sending her flowers or something she likes with an apology on the card. Good luck.
2006-07-17 19:03:13 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋