well if at this stage he cant trust you do you think he will in the long run? maybe he's unsure that a guy like him could keep a girl like you and doesnt wanna get his heart broken, so thats what he uses as an excuse. all i can say is, if you really really like him, stick w/ it
2006-07-17 11:52:37
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answered by tallmidgets91 2
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well what make you think that he wouldn't think like that because you started the relationship off bad. One you did that a man is always going to think like he can't trust you and you cheating( i beat he ask you who going with when you go out if so that's what a guy usually do in these kind of situations). But if you want to stay him you should gain his trust back. If you don't, that means you didn't want him in the first place. You have to Choose. Holla Back And Let Me Know What Happen!!!!!!!!!! Good Luck!
2006-07-17 18:58:30
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answered by Sweet Sug 1
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If he thinks you're going to leave him because you're too sexy, LEAVE HIM IN THE NEXT FIVE MINUTES FOR REAL! Don't fall for his low self-esteem problems! If you were kissing another guy, you're really not that interested anyway. Didn't you see that Dr Phil show where the wife had that low self-esteem husband who kept getting her pregnant so she wouldn't leave (and she was still sexy after 3 kids). Girl, spend your time better on better potential mates!
2006-07-17 18:52:31
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answered by chinky95 2
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Whoops! I see the beginnings of control, jealousy, and abuse starting.
You need to sit down with this guy and let him know that if he feels he can't trust you that he shouldn't be with you, but that you aren't going to stand for him demeaning you all the time with his worries about something that has nothing to do with your current relationship.
Watch very carefully where he goes with his attempts to tell you that he thinks "you can't be trusted so he needs to watch and control every aspect of your life". If he ever hits you then MAKE SURE that you are never alone with him again.
2006-07-17 18:59:53
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answered by Ellen J 7
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It depends on whether the guy is good enough for you, or who you love better. If you try to prove your trust and he still doesn't trust you after 1 kiss, then go for the other guy. If he doesn't trust you, then why be with him?
2006-07-17 18:52:32
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answered by meredithxc 2
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Well youve been going out for 9 months.
if his using that excuse after 9 months his defenitely looking for an excuse for a breakup
2006-07-17 18:55:50
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answered by Anonymous
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Just dump him...if he can't see that you like him and that you're not going to leave him for another guy, he doesn't trust you, and he's not worth your time
2006-07-17 18:53:39
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answered by Totally_Oblivious 1
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Learn proper English. Dump the insecure guy and start paying attention in school. That is truly my best advice.
2006-07-17 18:52:57
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answered by Dr. Kat 5
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u should talk to him and if he really likes u after nine months he would trust and believe u not break ur heart but if he doesn't u should just give it time he should come around if he doesn't dump him!
2006-07-17 18:52:55
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answered by Anonymous
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You need to drop the bum/ he is only going to make your life miserable cause he will never trust you
2006-07-17 18:51:54
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answered by a friend 2
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