how do i tell this guy to stop?

Question

he always touches me on the bus and asks me to have sex
and if i say no he calls me prude
i dont want to tell my parents or the principal

Answer 1

that's sexual harassment... you better tell someone, for your sake & the next girl he is going to do that crap to. have respect for yourself, don't worry about that jack a$$!

Answer 2

Next time he does that, stand up and yell, so everyone on the bus can hear.

"Get away you freak! I have TOLD you, I don't know any GAY GUYS that might be interested in you! Now leave me alone! If I meat a gay guy, I PROMISE I'll give him your number! Now stop it!"

Trust me, he will stay far away from you as possible after that.

Do you have any idea, how embarrassing that would be for him?

EVERYONE would laugh and start spreading the rumor that he likes guys too!

He'll be afraid to approach you again out of fear, of what you might say NEXT!

Answer 3

Okay, so I'm guessing you and he are pretty young. He is doing it to get a reaction from you. Just keep ignoring him and it will stop. Most time guys who are that forward are looking more for you to feel uncomfortable than anything else. Be PROUD of saving yourself until you're ready. NEVER, NEVER let anyone pressure you in to anything you don't feel good about.

That's all for the after school special. Good Luck!

Answer 4

TOUCHING YOU IS AN OFFENSE tell him to knock it off or you will press charges.. in a firm voice and ice stare and perhaps you wont have to tell your parents u have been raped as it it going that way!!!!!!!!!!!!! he knows ur scared he knows u are gonna be easy to corner some night some way some how he is a bully.. not a nice guy hes a smuck he is a head case that may grow up to be a rapist.. or perv/.. stop him now.

Answer 5

hey, girlfriend,
first you have to stand up for your self, then find out if this is really bothering you, If so maybe you need to ask him to stop, if he doesn't you should go and get some help from a adult. this is a very important issue you have,
never let someone do anything to you that you don't want them to do . never that's your body and you have the right to say stop and no.

Answer 6

Why don't you want to tell your parents or the principal? You telling him to stop isn't working. Time to bring in the big guns. It may be embarrassing telling someone but honey, this is sexual harrassment. Tell an adult you trust. A teacher works too.

Answer 7

u should report him or try to sit with someone else on the bus if u can. or get ur seat full. if that doesnt work then ur going to have to get some kind of help. if not teach him a lesson. kick him in that special area then the shin. if that doesnt stop him, well then u will have to tell a parent, guardian, principal, or school guidance counselor. u never know how far he will go to get something, or what he will try next. the best of luck to you.

Answer 8

Tell your parents and the principal. If you have already told him several times and he still persists then that is harassment. Tell you parents and let them go with you to tell the principal. No one has the right to touch you if you don't want them to. Continue to say "No."

Answer 9

You need to tell him to STOP!!! He has NO right to do this to you. Try not to sit near him. You need to find some one to tell, counselor, teacher, friends. I know it's embarrassing, but what he is doing is worse than any embarrassment. Stick up for you self. Good luck and be safe!

Answer 10

What he's doing is harrassment and you don't need to stand for it. They have laws in place for such things. You are entitled to get an education without feeling threatened everyday. Tell your parents and have them come with you to report it to the principal.

Answer 11

If this guy is harassing you in any way, it's your obligation to tell someone just like your parents or the principal. This isn't your fault, and if you let it go it may escalate to something more.