I like a boy and he likes me the problem is his girlfriend he likes us both wants to go out with me too but he won't break up with her! I really need advice about what to do!
2006-07-17 11:07:29 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If he won't break up with her, he's not really into you. Accept it and move on! There are other fish in the sea, you know.
2006-07-17 11:11:08 · answer #1 · answered by Wiser1 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If someone won't break up with someone for you then they're content for now. You really don't want to be the other girl or second choice and you think you're better than her? His loss maybe but you want what you can't have for now. If you let this obsession consume you you'll go crazy. No one is worth that. Join a book club or therapy group or just move on.
2006-07-17 11:33:34 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know that you really like this guy but you should find some one else. If he really likes you like he claims, he could not bear seeing you with another person. You are letting him control your life because you are hanging off his word and your life is at standstill. If you are allowing him to still be with his girlfriend and you at the same time why will he change his mind? You are allowing him to have his cake and eat it too. Live your life and if he is serious he would put you first. Be careful if he does break up with his girlfriend to be with you because how a man treat his ex is usually the way he will treat you.
2006-07-17 11:18:30 · answer #3 · answered by sam 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would think it carefully first. You're trying to get with a guy that likes another girl while he has a girlfriend. If he's willing to let his girlfriend go for you, that could be you a short while after he calls you his girlfriend. Don't be crushed if he trades you for someone else.
2006-07-17 11:12:54 · answer #4 · answered by artmastercf 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you won't see him anymore unless he breaks up with his girlfriend and only sees you, exclusively. Right now, he has the best of both worlds...why should he break up with his girlfriend? He has you anyway.
All's fair in love and war...if you want to be this guy's one and only, you have to give him an ultimatum...but be prepared if he decides to stay with his girlfriend.
2006-07-17 11:12:43 · answer #5 · answered by msgene61@sbcglobal.net 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
MOVE ON! Why is this so difficult? Sweetie, if the guy isn't giving you the time of day the way you deserve and respect, then get over it! Besides, she's his girlfriend, not you! Have more respect for her too and stop trying to take HER man!
2006-07-17 11:10:17 · answer #6 · answered by Dr. Kat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he asked you out and the other girl is not a good friend then go out with him and realy make an inpression on him i mean work you'r but off but before you go find out what he's interested in and you like it to just focus on him and tell him that you are interested but do'nt make him chose beteen the two of you just be his friend and let him keep her for a while but if he want's to talk then you be there just try to find out what he dislikes about her and do't do that you do't need to have sex with him to get him and if that go's on to long for you than date other guys in front of him but don't let him know if you are doing haveing sex with the other guy tust me if he likes you this will drive him crazy
2006-07-17 16:47:29 · answer #7 · answered by cynthia s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You DON'T want any guy to dump their current girl friend for you-what would stop him of doing it to you if another came along?
Face it-he's not available-drop it. Find a different interest. If he breaks up with her and wants to go out with you-that's different. DON'T try to find ways to make him like you to dump her-trust me on this one!!!!
2006-07-17 11:10:20 · answer #8 · answered by sherri h 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
like i always say a girl has to have some dignity, why should u be the other girl in the corner waiting for some guy to get tired of his girl to come and do the same to you,girl he obviously doesn't love you because if he really did he would leave his girl to be with u,and if he does like u he likes he's girl more than u because he doesn,t want to leave her.
2006-07-17 11:15:09 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He doesnt like you enough if hes still with his gf. So the best thing you can do in this situation is take the high road and find someone else who will like you and only you. Someone who will only want to be with you and no one else.
2006-07-17 11:12:11 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋