i was about to have sex with this big boned black girl and she was naked and i couldn't get it up she sucked it and i jacked it off but it wouldn't get hard
2006-07-17 10:57:48 · 22 answers · asked by justin g 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Performance anxiety!!! Thats the term for your problem.
2006-07-17 11:00:41 · answer #1 · answered by babygirl_k2001 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No that does not make u gay. I mean only you can know if u are gay. But just cause one woman can not get u up there could have been many issues with that. Maybe she did not turn you on. Maybe there is some kind of stress in your life that u are dealing with that will make it harder to rise to the occasion. I mean i dont know try it again and see what happens but this does not make u gay.
2006-07-17 18:02:30 · answer #2 · answered by psycholilblondegirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If u already jacked off then you ejaculated so give ur self some time maybe grab something to eat, watch a porno, and try again!!
Good luck and no ur not gay honey!!
2006-07-17 18:11:54 · answer #3 · answered by Caryn B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is possible that you have problems getting it up in general. Watch some erotic materials and see how you react to seeing naked women.
2006-07-17 18:08:47 · answer #4 · answered by Mohammed R 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she needs more practice....you too by the sound of it! You're probably not gay, too much anticipation...maybe somethings wrong with your penis....uh oh!
2006-07-17 18:03:06 · answer #5 · answered by Hannah 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it just means maybe you werent attracted to her or maybe u just werent really in the mood
2006-07-17 18:01:08 · answer #6 · answered by Rachel Bug 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just some issues of your own probably. If it gets hard mostly when you want it too, don't even worry about it.
2006-07-17 18:01:51 · answer #7 · answered by kurticus1024 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, from the way you make it sound you just wasn't really into her so that probably why it didn't work for you.
2006-07-17 18:01:35 · answer #8 · answered by Blackcatkurosaki 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did we really need to know that? lol work it out yourself, that doesnt exactly mean you're gay, if you were gay you would fancy guys
2006-07-17 18:00:37 · answer #9 · answered by Spinach 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no it doesnt make you gay. i guess that you werent turned on by her. ask yourself when you looked at her naked did you say yummy? or gross?
2006-07-17 18:01:35 · answer #10 · answered by Cars 4 Sale 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋