he tell me he wants someone to be there for him but not looking for a "serious" relationship.does that means he just wants a bootycall or what do u think... please give me ur opinion..
2006-07-17 10:33:36 · 13 answers · asked by mia 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yap...too scared to be a MAN.
2006-07-17 10:36:46 · answer #1 · answered by tyrha69 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if he likes you, and want to "date" you. I'm pretty sure it's not only a bootycall. It probably means he likes you a lot, and he wants to take it, maybe he just came from another relationship. let it slowly progress.
~Thomas
2006-07-17 17:37:32 · answer #2 · answered by tomhanken 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm in the same situation right now. It means that he wants to date other people as well as you. He doesn't want a committed relationship, and all that goes with, it at the moment. Give him time, don't be clingy.
2006-07-17 17:37:15 · answer #3 · answered by Mintygoodness1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with all those people that says that he just wants sex. Like a male friend of mine just told me yesterday, if a guy likes a girl enough, he'd be willing to put up with all her bullshit (even if that means shopping for shoes). So how much bullshit he puts up with is proportional to how much he likes you unless you're truly a pyscho girl, then good luck. He wants someone to be there for him, but who's going to be there for you? Find yourself a real man!
2006-07-17 21:20:08 · answer #4 · answered by peta 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Duh....he just wants a "friend with benefits". Hey, this is not ALWAYS a bad thing. If you want more, then obviously this is not the guy for you. But, if you can hang just being a piece of azz to him...go for it.
2006-07-17 17:49:38 · answer #5 · answered by Dee M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I personly have said that. he probly likes someone else more and doesnt want to ruin his chanses with that girl, or he realy just wants a freind that he doesnt haft to worry about. i no that if i like a girl ill tell everyone else that i dont want a gf bc i dont want to lose my ne chanse with the one that could matter
2006-07-17 17:40:24 · answer #6 · answered by alex 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are probably right.
If it's not going to be serious, then "fun" is next down on the list. Right?
Tell him you have your values and standards.
2006-07-17 17:36:57 · answer #7 · answered by brian k 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing wrong with just wanting to have fun. If you're under 25, that's all you should be doing anyway.
2006-07-17 17:41:16 · answer #8 · answered by Jolly1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he wants someone but he dont want to be tied down by a serious girlfriend try it but dont give him any the truth about him will come out
2006-07-17 17:37:22 · answer #9 · answered by dog 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. He wants to have his cake and eat it too.
2006-07-17 17:37:15 · answer #10 · answered by JustMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋