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Question

I was at a party and that night when everybody left. This dude sat on my booty and massaged my back. Is that called cheating. My boyfriend says yes what do you say he the one let some b**** suck his d*** and said that aint cheating.What do you think

Answer 1

well he definitely cheated, what you did wasn't necessarily cheating, but you should ask yourself, if the tables were turned would you want someone sitting on him and massaging his back, under optimal circumstances of course. But if he does consider you cheating just say that the two of you are even now.

Answer 2

Oh boy, that sounds like a double standard to me. Back rubs are not anywhere near in the same category as oral sex - they can be entirely platonic and therapeutic. That having been said, if I were in a committed relationship of any kind, I would avoid any physical contact beyond, say, shaking hands with anyone except my 'commit-ee', any kind of flirtation, etc. and expect the same from him.

If he wasn't willing, I think I would break up with him. I mean, I'm not going to get into a permanent relationship with someone who is not going to be absolutely faithful. Each of us has to make sure that the other is the most important for us, that we do not allow *anyone* or *anything* except God to come between us, and that we are committed permanently and exclusively to each other. And yes, I would wait with sex until after that's happened.

Answer 3

I think that ur boyfriend getting a little nookie was cheating with u whereas u just getting a back massage is not b-cuz the other guy was just being nice.

Answer 4

no thats not cheating, what he did was cheating. cheating is usual identified as holding hands, kissing, sexual stuff,etc. what you did could happen at a massage parlor or something.
So basically he is worthless.

Answer 5

Ok he was cheating you were not no questions asked that's it.

Answer 6

your man was definetly cheating and you still call him your man?what you did was flirt