Heres wat happned with me and my gf how do i get her back?

Question

LAST WEEK MY GIRLFRIEND OF ALMOST A YEAR BROKE UP WITH ME OUT OF NO WHERE SHE DID IT OVER MYSPACE BY DELTING ME AS HER FRIEND PUTTING SHE WAS SINGLE AND REMOVING ANY PICTURES SHE HAD UP OF ME. THE NEXT DAY SHE TEXT MESSAGED ME SAYIN IT WAS OVER...THEN WHEN WE TALKED SHE SAID HER FEELINGS HAD CHANGED SHE CARES ABOUT ME BUT DOESNT LOVE ME NO MORE....THE WIERD PART IS WAS A FEW NIGHTS BEFORE SHE HAD TOLD ME SHE LOVED & THE DAY SHE BROKE UP WITH ME WE TALKED & EVERYTHING SEEMED FINE....AND NOW SHE TELLS ME THAT SHE FEELS FREE AND THAT BEFORE SHE WAS FEELING TRAPPED...SHE ALSO SAID SUMTIMES I WAS TO OVER PROTECTIVE...I ALSO ASKED HER HOW HER FEELINGS COULD CHANGE SO QUICK FOR ME SHE SAID I MUST NOT HAVE BEEN REAL LOVE THEN.....NOW SHE WANTS ME TO LEAVE HER ALONE AND GIVE HER SPACE...WATS THE BEST 2 DO HOW LONG SHOULD I WAIT BEFORE I CALL HER AND HOW CAN I GET HER BACK WITHOUT SOUNDING NEEDY...IVE ALREADY TOLD HER ILL WAIT 4EVER 4 CUZ SHES THE LOVE OF MY LIFE I NEED ALL THE ADVICE I CAN GET

Answer 1

I think that maybe you need to snap back into reality here and understand that it might not work between you. It clearly sounds like her feelings have definately changed for whatever reason. I would let her make the first move by calling or wanting to see you, however long it takes. If you have any chance I wouldnt push her away b/c it sounds like she is pretty far away now. Just give it time and perhaps things will change for you. Good Luck

Answer 2

Well, have you asked yourself why she said that? She must have a real reason why over night she changed how she felt about you. I would say, 1. She has been felling like this for a long time and didn't tell you because she didn'y know how, or, 2. Something is up, like, she met someone else or maybe another problem. I think you guys should talk more so you could find out the root of the problem. About calling her... I advice you to wait a while because maybe she will be the one calling you. There has to be more to her break-up which doing it through myspace and text messages is a very cowardly way to do it...

Also maybe its also time for you to let go becaues she isn't feeling that way about you and isnt treating you and telling you in respectful ways. If she wanted to do it..she should have done it in a nicer way

Answer 3

OK plz don't be a fool chasing her around because she broke up with you so suddenly. How old are you? If she played it like nuthin was wrong before, she obviously was lying to you and she doesn't want to be with you. If you care and love her so much give her the space she is asking for but make it know that you are never very far away for her if she ever needed a friend that if nothing else that is what you wanted to be in her life instead of never talking again. If she can cope with that you havea chance to re-light the flame which you so badly yearn for in her heart.
Girls can be confusing sometimes, if she doesnt want to be a least friends then maybe you should ask if she is interested in someone else. If thats the case she was never good for you to begin with and you should try your best to move on.
Good luck and god bless.

Answer 4

My darling, I have no idea of how old are you or her but I will tell you something, give yourself some space too. You deserve it!!! A person that changes her mind from one day to the other is because she has no idea of what she really wants or maybe there is something cooking in the oven and you are not invited. I feel she is too ignorant, to remove pics and then to say that she is single?, you were the last one to know that it was over? Please give me a break, try dating and talking to new people. This will totally bring her back and maybe it will be to late for her (anyways she deserves it). Good Luck my friend!

Answer 5

I'm going to assume from your mode of type that you're quite young, and I'm going to tell you something you're going to reject out-right: Don't try to get her back. This is a major red flag. It took me a LONG time to figure this out. So, my advice to you would be move on. Someone who's going to change their mind right off the bat like that and leave you hanging isn't worth it. It will happen over and over again. And if she's in high school, the chances of her dumping you repeatedly are higher, simply because when you're in high school, you don't know who you are yet, or what you want or what type of person you want to be. So you experiment and reject things that don't seem to suit. There is someone much kinder out there. Up your standards and don't let people tread on you like that. Don't cling to people that make you feel unwanted. Find those that make you feel sexy and super-awesome.

Answer 6

Sounds like she has been contemplating it for some time now. She either met someone new or she had influence from one of her friends to finally end it. Let her have her space. As hard as it is, ignoring her will work ONLY if she still cares. If she misses you she will come back. If not, she won't. In that case, leave her alone.

Answer 7

she didnt just change her mind in a day unless shes bi polar or sick. theres probably something either another guy/girl or you did or didnt say what she wanted to hear. or she thinks she needs to try new things depending on age maybe she thought she needed a different view because you two were geting to close and that freaked her out. all i know is that if i have been with a guy for a year and decide to end it its because either i was just playing for a while or he did or didnt do something for me. it was probably a mix of her feelings and her friends agreeing and not really listening. i would give her what she wants but always be there if shes the one.

Answer 8

Women are for sex and not much else. Because you don't understand this, her behavior doesn't make sense.

Here's what you do. Simply shrug and walk away from her to screw a series of other women. A few weeks later, she will come back to you about the big mistake she made. Tell her fine but you are also screwing these other women.

Welcome to the reality of dating women in america. It's like the matrix. Nothing is what you think it is.

Answer 9

Give her as much time as she needs. I recommend 4-5 years. If you're old enough, move else where, since you're going to wait forever. Make a new life for yourself, but if you're a teenager, or if you're younger then a teen. Just leave her alone, if she wants you back, then you'll be back. But until then, just leave her alone like you never met.

~Thomas

Answer 10

get over it, shes polishing other guys knobs. Think about it, why would she remove your pictures? She has other guys coming over and hittin that snatch. Maybe your just not good enough in the sack. She has some other guy comin over and givin it to her like she wants it. Go find yourself a dog girlfriend that doesnt care. Oh well, you just couldnt get the job done. Think about this, she has some other guys dick in her mouth and she is probably swallowing the *** he is shooting in there too.