Just broke up with boyfriend last week, we are still friends and he will be leaving on Thursday to move back to his home state, he relocated and we moved in together. What should we do for the next couple of days? We agreed to see each other again in Feb 2007, but who knows that is not promised feeling may change and we may have new people in our lives. The break up was mutual no hard feelings.
2006-07-17 10:03:08 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
We do not want to get back together we were going to stay in touch and just agrred to meet up in Vegas with friends in Feb. I'm not waiting for him and I'm sure he is not waiting for me. I'm moving on with my life. Sometimes you just date a person when you were meant actually meant to be friends instead.
2006-07-17 10:15:03 · update #1
The only thing you can really do is stay in touch with him from now until Feb 2007 and if ur feelings start to change or u meet someone else just be honest and let him know before then!
2006-07-17 10:08:57 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
You should try to move on quickly or just accept that it did not work for you two. Believe me you will end up waisting a lot of time waiting until Feb. 2007. By then so much time will have passed either you or him would have changed. Nothing stays the same. If he isn't there to change with you it wont work.
2006-07-17 17:08:44 · answer #2 · answered by D-town 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first off, its long distant, those usually don't every work. In this case, you REALLY wont be seeing him as u broke up despite the fact u are friends. Just see other people. Sometimes couples do get back together later on. Guys usually don't know what they had after they lost it. Im sure some others on here will agree
2006-07-17 17:07:38 · answer #3 · answered by hersheybar99 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask yourself, do you want to be his promised sex partner? How do you know if you will meet someone before then? He is leaving and I will bet he won't wait. Many men, in fact, tell you to wait, because they know you are a faithful person and keep your word, then they meet someone and come back and tell you and hurt you. GIRL, MOVE ON..and if he is yours, HE will come back. IF NOT, he never was! BUT BE HONEST with him. Never agree to just wait. That makes one out to be just so in love that you will deprive yourself of love until he decides. HELL NO!!! LOL!! The next couple of days, you should do whatever feels right, but after that, move on. YOU already broke up. NEVER be someone's " on call booty"! YOU are better than that!.
2006-07-17 17:10:42 · answer #4 · answered by L B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
so long time till Feb.2007,wait and see what the days will do ,who knows
2006-07-17 17:07:49 · answer #5 · answered by sigmastar _62 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
then be just a friend until he leaves.no promises no relationship stuff like kissing and holding hands.you both agreed to move on and stay friends and do just that.
2006-07-17 17:07:19 · answer #6 · answered by Amry 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Say your goodbyes and move on, since its mutual its obvious that the both of you have different lives to lead.
2006-07-17 17:06:07 · answer #7 · answered by xprophet78 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree that you should say your goodbyes and move on. While you're together just try to have fun.
http://www.daylon.com/dating/
that might help you a bit.
2006-07-17 17:08:21 · answer #8 · answered by nolyad69 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think ya'll should stay together no matter what happens. if ya'll are in love with each other than ya'll can make it work and that shouldn't stop you and him from seeing each other. also if you trust him and he trust you then thats all ya'll need to keep your relationship alive.
2006-07-17 17:08:56 · answer #9 · answered by Annette A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Then all is cool....If you get back together then that was ment to happen...and if not...enjoy the memories....LIFE IS NOT ABOUT WHAT IS GOING TO HAPPEN. BUT WHAT HAS HAPPENED...
LIFE IS MEMORIES NOT PROJECTED THOUGHTS.
2006-07-17 17:07:51 · answer #10 · answered by scooter47 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋