What are the most common ways women flirt with a guy they just met?

Question

I met a woman who had her cleavage up in my face, and I was left wondering if that was an act of flirting.
Often times I meet a girl, and I have no idea if she is just super nice, or if she likes me and was showing her interest in me.

I think I'm borderline autistic in my ability to read women. So I hope you women can tell me specific flirting acts/methods which I can write down in list/bulleted form, to carry around with me as a reference during my interactions with the female species..

Please be specific.

Answer 1

Girls will laugh and usually find a reason to touch you, either on the arm or hand. That is a clear indication that they are interested.

I, personally, will also pick on the guy about something (example: messy hair, I'd say something like "You got serious bed head!" and fluff it with my hand.)

Some girls, myself included, are natural flirts. You just have to read the signs. If you like the way she touches you, tell you'd like to go out sometime.

As far as the cleavage thing, probably not flirting. Probably just a strong bra.

Answer 2

what that woman did was basically slutty.... she is not a "take home to mom" kinda girl...

women flirt usually in subtle ways....first the eye contact, then the smile, then look away, then look back at you.....thats the initial flirt....

then if you dont we try to find a way to strike conversation (alot of women hope you will first after the above mentioned initial flirt is done) ....anyways, it really doesnt matter what this convo is about its a gateway....

...now during this, if she smiles alot, finds ways to keep it going, and barely touches you in some small way thats flirting, if she seems kidna dingy shes flirting.... not meaning to seem dingy but has a thing for you and it might make her nervous.

there are alot more, but these are fairly standard
good luck!

just be confident! confidence is key!

Answer 3

LOL...okay this is a good question I like this one. I am a BIG FLIRT! But I really clam up especially when I REALLY REALLY LIKE A GUY. I do more body talk than. I like touch his hand, but pretend it wasn't on purpose, or smile, ask him to dance, make sure that he notices every inch of my body, get really close so he can sense that I find him attractive, sometimes I ask if he'd buy me a drink or flirt with my eyes. When we dance and I feel that he's really into me, than I do a little dirty dance with him or for him...but that's as far as it usually goes, until I know him better!(That's how I am with my fiance now, but that's how I was with the guys I did date or meet for a first date!)

Answer 4

Yeah it sounds like she is naturally flirty and really isn't over her ex at all. Maybe they are even thinking of getting back together, if they see each other that much something must be up. Id just find someone else to flirt with cuz she sounds a bit involved.

Answer 5

touching their hair or mouth, getting in "your space", giggling, making eyes at you, if they touch you, the're are lots of signs. Go to the library and borrow a book on reading people - it will help in all aspects of your life.

Answer 6

idk about other women but i act like i have a secret so the guy wants to find out what it is. I am a really talkitive person so i act kind of contained and shy (sort of )but after i talk to the guy for a while i get talkitive and really nice and fun

Answer 7

make eye contact, lookem in the eye, put ur hands through their hair, little giggles,etc. their is way to many to say.

Answer 8

They will touch your shoulder or hand. Toss their hair, laugh a lot and smile.

Answer 9

she giggles, touches her hair, smiles as she shyishly looks down,makes an excuse to get your phone number or see you again

Answer 10

Slight smiles, tongue on teeth, batting eyes, little giggles