We broke up and agreed to be friends, but the tricky part is we are sexually compatible. We have started to open up more to new position and anal sex....we are going to watch a porn tonight and we never did this while a couple it just so happens when he was packing his things one fell from his belongings and I was turned on. We will be long distance, but agreed to get together every couple of months, what do you think. He we both began dating other people I'm positive neither one of us would get jealous because we live in two different states. What is your opinion.
2006-07-17 09:43:15 · 9 answers · asked by Kenya 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I no longer want a relationship with him I just like being friends and I would be okay with being freinds with no benefits....
2006-07-17 10:05:27 · update #1
I'm all for it!! Some people are not compatible in certain relationships and when we force it, things turn ugly. Here is a prime example of not forcing the issue but still being able to enjoy one another after a relationship, whether it be mentally or physically!
2006-07-17 09:46:51 · answer #1 · answered by M D 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
As much as people believe that they will not get jealous, evenutally it is bound to happen. Situations like this always end up the same, one of the two parties will either develop serious feelings that are not reciprocated, or one of you will develop a strong relationship with someone else and will not know how to end things. The reason why you are open to more things sexually is because since the relationship is no longer "officially" you both feel as though there is no longer an emotional attachment, which removes the feelings of being judged.
2006-07-17 16:48:28 · answer #2 · answered by xprophet78 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It happened to me all the same after a 7-year marriage that ended. And it was pointing towards the same direction also (a_nal etc...) In our case, at this point it seems like we are sort of steering away from each other naturally (being apart will cause that, because you simply grow in different directions, like a tree that's branching). At least to me, it wouldn't work out in a sex-only relationship because it takes a bit more than just porn to get me really hooked on someone. I'm talking commitment and... well... love.
2006-07-17 16:54:20 · answer #3 · answered by disintegrationisthebestalbumever 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a very bad idea.
It might be OK now but a Little down the line you or he will get attached and heart break will come again.
Please find a new man. You can be friends but not friends with benefits.
2006-07-17 16:46:55 · answer #4 · answered by Ryce Queen 13 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Friends with benefits can be handy. Just back off if you start to feel more than just friendship with him. It can be hard when you guys have been a couple before.
2006-07-17 16:46:40 · answer #5 · answered by Mintygoodness1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO, NO, NO!! Have a little respect for yourself even if he doesn't (which appears to be the case). It's over - let him go and do't be "friends with benefits". Besides - who knows what he's going to be up to where he's going disease wise!!!
2006-07-17 16:48:28 · answer #6 · answered by island3girl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you have evolved to friends w/benefits
That's cool if it works for you
2006-07-17 16:45:08 · answer #7 · answered by drsteve362005 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
friends with benifits is what it is called
2006-07-17 16:48:49 · answer #8 · answered by Tazzy14 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd say you stay broken up.
2006-07-17 16:45:38 · answer #9 · answered by nolyad69 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋