We were really close & good friends as teenagers & I had always loved him & things never turned into boyfriend/girlfriend....and then we both parted ways. We both went on to get married to other people & have two children each. I ran into him on Sat. & he hugged & kissed my cheek....we talked just like the good friends we were...very comfortable. He asked if I was still married & I told him no & then he told me that he is divorced now too. He told me to stop over his house some time & then we exchanged phone #'s. We talked about maybe going out for a drink some time & "catching up". His b-day is on Thurs. & I thought I'd text him...he'll be surprised that I remembered. I'm not sure how to handle this...I feel like this is a "second chance" for me. I'm not sure if he's seeing anyone or not. My question is should I wait for him to call or should I be the first to call him?
2006-07-17 09:36:43 · 10 answers · asked by godsmacksun23 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
wow almost sounds like a love movie lol, call him, don't wait, he's back in your path 4 a reason.
2006-07-17 09:48:04 · answer #1 · answered by D 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wait on him to call, cause he's gotta have the same sort of feeling as you, if you want it to work. It looks like it could be a second chance, but still.......he needs to feel the same way, or it'll be an embarrassing moment for you. If he's got your number, and he feels for you, he'll call.....but, if I were you, I'd still wish him a happy birthday and see if he asks you out or something.
2006-07-17 09:45:28 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-01 19:17:29 · answer #3 · answered by arwood 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call him as a friend. The best relationships start of as friendships that blossom. It sounds like you had a connection once, so why not try to rekindle that and see where it leads. It cost nothing to make a friend, and where it leads could be priceless.
2006-07-17 09:41:22 · answer #4 · answered by rudytute 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If things didn't work in the beginning what makes you think that they will work now? Obviously HE'S NOT THAT INTO YOU and never was or you would have been the woman he married. You want to be second looser? Cut your losses and move on.
2006-07-17 09:42:52 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he doesn't call before thursday, call him and be like "Hey, I think today might be someone I know's birthday. Do you happen to know who it could be?" he will laugh and it will ease the akwardness you both might feel. I think it would be a good first step for you. Take things slow and good luck!
2006-07-17 09:41:22 · answer #6 · answered by Mintygoodness1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
call him you don't want to miss the boat, and guys realy like it when a woman calls them you know male ego, wht have you got to loose maybe the price of the phone call, but look at what you could gain.
2006-07-17 09:41:18 · answer #7 · answered by citisat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call him and have some hot steamy sex to release the pent up passion you've felt for him for so many years
2006-07-17 09:39:23 · answer #8 · answered by drsteve362005 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait for him unless you know what you want and give him some time to realize what he wants and yes this could definently be a second chance!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-07-17 09:42:11 · answer #9 · answered by girly_girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u feel like u still love him, find out how he feels about u, and he may be your soulmate.
2006-07-17 09:43:20 · answer #10 · answered by jessica c 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋