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Question

My friend has a baby with her ex. She recently broke up with him because he was cheating on her. He is hysterical, wants her back, etc. Well, he has been pulling some incredible things, being a real a**hole, saying all kinds of horrible things to her. Last night, she said was veyr strange. She isn't crazy, she isn't stupid, she was born and raised Catholic, but last night she said she saw something very odd. She said that he was hysterical crying again, and she felt bad so she went to his place to try to help. She said after an hour of crying hysterically, sobbing, all that fun stuff, he calmed instantly, got up and blew his nose. IT scared the hell out of her, and she ran for the door, she thought he was going to beat her. But she said he came down the stairs after her, and said, very clearly "I'm not going to hurt you. (Insert her ex's name here) Doesn't want that." All she could do was stare at him. He continued to talk like this to her all night, referring to himself in the third

(third) person. This alternate personality kept referring to her ex ina negative way, althoug he called himself his guardian angel. PErsonally, I believed she witnessed something like multiple personality disorder. Or, some really elaborate manipulating scheme to keep her there and in the room and feeling sorry for him. But, we can't rule outthat there are supernatural things involved. Could it be a spirit? A guardian angel? Could it be multiple personality? In multiple personality, I thought you didn't remember what your other personality does, but he remembered everything that went on. Thats what she thought to. It could be that he is just crazy. I need real advice here, thanks!

Answer 1

if i remember correctly, referring to one's self in the third person is the first sign of insanity...

Answer 2

Whether or not spirits/angels/demons exist isn't in the issue here. The SAFEST thing to do is get the heck away from him. It could as likely be a manipulation or some sort of other psycoligical illness. And contrary to popular belief, multiple personality disorder is actually VERY RARE, if it truly ever occurs at all. (The media and movies have sensationalized it.)

Answer 3

My guess is multiple personalities if it was a guardian angel of any sort it would not refer in a negitive way to others but the only way to find out is to get checked by a specialist * person with problem will probably refuse to be checked if it is multiple personality. Also checking the child for similar "unusualitites" would be smart which are recognizable in the first 3 years of the childs life which will provide more answers.

Answer 4

Hi There!

Wow- that story just gave me the chills! There could be 2 possibilities (and probably more but I am unsure.)
1.) He is a schizophrenic.
2.) He has a demon.
I dont think that a guardian angel would have control of his voice. My understanding is that a guardian angel is there to protect you, but wouldnt speak through you. Where as a demon could.
I would tell your friend to stay away from him regardless - he sounds unstable and unsafe. Tell her no matter how sorry for him she feels and how concerned she is, she shouldnt subject herself or her baby to that kind of danger!
Whenever someone talks to themselves in third person manner during an emotional time- you know somethings wrong.
So be cautious and stay safe! Let me know how it goes,,,or if you find anything else out!!!
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Answer 5

Tel her to get away from him as soon as possible....Something does not sound right. If he has Dissociative Identity Disorder (Multiple personality Disorder) he would not be able to remember anything that happens when the alter ego/ego's manifest, but the egos know about each other though... Ego's can alternate very suddenly. Almost sounds like he has Multiple personality disorder..but it sounds to fishy to be the truth...it sounds like it was faked? You say he was hysterical en want her back...sounds like he is desperate and would do anything. Anyone who is this manipulative and hysterical after HE cheats on YOU is not a nice person for a healthy relationship.

About the guardian angel...I believe in them and that they are sent to us by God's Grace. I just cant understand why the angel would come in his(the ex boyfriend's) body and talk to her all night about the guy himself. That doesn't sound right. I think he faked the hole thing to get her back...
I'm just speculating and this just doesn't sound right to me. I'd tel my friend to distance herself and the baby from him for good. He sounds dangerous if he is able to lie about something like this. Shame, your a good friend..and I'm sure you and her wouldn't be feeling these concerned feelings about this if it wasn't something to be concerned about. Goodluck

Answer 6

Sounds like a wacko to me. Typically in accounts such as guardian angels etc, the angel is a stranger and does not inhibit someone else's body. The inhibiting some ones body is often told in connection with Satanistic things. Either way, she needs to stay away from the ex.

Answer 7

She should relate this story to an attorney and ask that he be required to have mental testing prior to any further visitation with the baby. And, she needs to stop feeling sorry for him and let him go -- maybe even get a protection order. He is either suffering something mental or pretending -- neither is a good thing unless he gets treatment and she gets an assurance he is stable.

Answer 8

Wow, sounds pretty creepy. The thing is, your right, could be multiple personality disorder, could be a rotten, nasty trick, or it could be a foreign spirit. If it was a spirit, and she didn't feel peaceful inside, then it wasn't a good spirit. No matter what it was, I don't think he's safe to have her or the baby around.

Answer 9

The real damage has already been done, She will never be able to have him totally out of her life, because she went against the will of GOD when she had sex outside of marriage and became pregnant.

This being said, she does need to keep herself away from the harm, and one night of no violence does not prove one cured.

Acceptance on his part that he cannot control and violate her would be step one, not his other personality, but him, humbly telling her that he accepts that they cannot be together until he is healed of his anger and physical outburst of that anger.

Then he should be willing to continue on with his life and with only the hope that he will win her back, without asking, on her own, in her own time, not his. (no abuser will accept this one)

My advise to her, is to stop running to him, literally control herself and do not do it, she is not now and never will be responsible for his behavior or lack of it.

Answer 10

people think that they still love a person even while their partner does horrible things to them. the emotional connection, though, needs to be severed, for her safety. if possible, i think you should help her get away from him, even though she might protest on account of them needing each other. you should contact authorities like the police who can physically do something about this. he will not change just because you want him to. remember the definition of insane is doing the same thing over and over and expecting different results.

Answer 11

He sounds unstable psychologically. If it's one of the many unstable issues someone can suffer of- he needs medication. If he is putting on an act, he needs to be avoided.

A Roman Catholic woman divorced her husband?

And I thought that is a sin! Is that sin okay now?

( That last part was for free )

Your friendly neighborhood Protestant man.