My bf and i (24) He started becoming friendly with this 19 year old girl. She is very flirtatious with my bf. i thought something suspisious was going on because i found out he has been hanging out with her a lot, but mostly with her other female friend and or people.As i know, he only hung out with her alone once. last night, she invited my bf and me to a restaurant with her female friend and 2 male friends. My bf sat inbetween me and her. She and her friend talked to me, but I found this 19 year old to be extremely flirtatous toward him. My bf tends to be a flirt in general. I felt strange because i was bothered by the flirting, yet my bf wanted to just spend the night with me alone and we were very intimate together last night. It had been a long time since we were intimate. I feel that i can trust him despite the fact that this girl is very flitatious.If there was something going on i dont think she would ask for me to come to the dinner and meet me.she even hugged me goodnight
2006-07-17 09:11:00 · 9 answers · asked by hersheybar99 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
forgot to add that this 19 year old got him the job in the mall. He sees her at work. I have a feeling this girl will eventually get annoyed with her only because last night she was already asking the both of us to hang with them more, but he just wanted to go home and have me over alone
2006-07-17 09:12:31 · update #1
that He will get Annoyed at Her i mean to say previously. When he wanted to go home , she was making annoying voice (i heard over the cell phone) "oh, im angry , im gonna yell if you don't come"
2006-07-17 09:13:36 · update #2
yes i do love him, i feel like i can trust him as he said he has never cheated on a girl. He knows that is my biggest issue. My other friend met this 19 year old, apparentely she thought she was flirtatious with him, but harmless...at least thats what she said though
2006-07-17 09:23:49 · update #3
He loves you!! She has nothing on you BUT becareful, if it makes you uncomfortable than tell him this!
2006-07-17 09:15:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is possible she is after your boyfriend and is using the fact that she got him a job as a way to hammer him into what she wants from him. It is also possible that she wanted to check you out so that would explain the all going out together as an excuse. Your boyfriend is probably flattered by the flirtation and attention. It might even turn him on. I would take a wait and see attitude. Don't nag him or get whiny because you will drive him further away from you. If you want, arrange your time together so that he doesn't have time for her outside of work but do it subtly so he doesn't think you are jealous. If he does suspect you are jealous he could prolong the flirtation with her just to make you angry. Be nice, but be watchful.
Good luck.
2006-07-17 09:22:04 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your boyfriend you have a bad feeling about the 19 year old. It's not that you don't trust him, you don't trust her. From what you said, I wouldn't trust her AT ALL. I've been in similar situations, so I can say this...if you have a funny feeling about someone, trust it. Even if you can't quite put your finger on it, there is something not quite right. Trust your instincts.
Love your man??? Tell him how you feel - without being a shrew, tell him how you feel
Don't be fooled with her being nice to you - she sounds devious, this could very well be something to throw you off her intentions.
2006-07-17 09:18:45 · answer #3 · answered by lovelylady 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you really need to talk too him about this. this whole DINNER thing-- could've been a complete setup for you to NOT think anything was happening. something could be VERY well happening, or it may not be, but it's better safe than sorry.
you need to talk too him and tell him how you feel. and then if his answer(s) don't satisfy you, do some investigating of your own. this chick sounds REALLY suspicious too me, and i don't trust her or her motives @ all. i don't know why she would get YOUR boyfriend a job @ the mall unless SHE was going to get something out of it. maybe what she's getting out of it is getting too see your man @ work all the time, and or something else.
this chick-- NEEDS too go....believe me, i've been in your position before. but you need to talk too him as well. i'm not saying HE has to go, but this girl really does. she'll definitely start stirring things up sooner or later. just be really open and honest with him and the way you feel about this whole situation and ask him too tell you what's going on, and when he says "nothing, nothing's going on." ask him "what's nothing??" be really analytical, and if he gets REALLY defensive, you might want to take a heads up on that.
just be really careful hun!! good luck and i hope this helped you some!
2006-07-17 09:22:58 · answer #4 · answered by jetters007 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-02 05:46:22 · answer #5 · answered by garion 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
k? shes probalbly a ***** inside, and her problably has a habit of flirting, but yeah, she is problably just trying to be nice (plus why would she bring another girl with her if she wanted to take him from u?)
2006-07-17 09:17:50 · answer #6 · answered by shinobikidx25 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
STEP AWAY GET SOME SPACE LET THEM HANDLE THINGS
2006-07-17 09:16:12 · answer #7 · answered by Penney S 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
face the enemy and have a 3some. it's win win
2006-07-17 09:16:57 · answer #8 · answered by kurleylovescheese 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's having sex with her.
2006-07-17 09:36:10 · answer #9 · answered by DipperJapan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋