2006-07-17 09:00:59 · 29 answers · asked by qtairforcebrat22 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
bullshit
2006-07-17 09:13:24 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think someone decided a long time ago how men and women should act and good or bad it's been passed from generation to generation.
I don't believe men have more fragile egos than a woman. I don't believe that tough men don't cry. I don't believe their emotions are any different than a females.
What I do believe is that what they've been taught so they try to live up to it. Sad huh? I hope future mothers change that stupidity.
So if you think a guy is afraid of losing someone and it happens, then he acts like he doesn't care, he's probably covering a broken heart with bravado because that's what men are supposed to do.
Not.
2006-07-17 16:08:14 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If they are afraid of losing someone they love then they DO care if they do. Some men just have a strange way of showing there emotions. There are some that are an open book and then there are others that U have to examine a little closer. Believe it or not, men love just as hard as women, maybe not as easily, but definately as hard.
2006-07-17 16:05:47 · answer #3 · answered by HeartsOnFire 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kind of a Catch-22. Guy's are afraid to lose someone they love, but don't care if they do? Sounds to me that guys are afraid to lose and hide behind their feelings when they do. After all, they let the person into their world and they were shunned. After so many times of being shunned, I suppose it no longer hurts...or maybe it does. But they aren't going to let anyone else no that.
2006-07-17 16:07:49 · answer #4 · answered by King H 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In my case it is just the opposite: I am afraid of losing the girl that i love, and i do care if i lose her, but she does not care if she loses me, even though she is afraid of losing me. I think that guys just do not want to seem needy and do not want to seem weak, and they feel that if they show the caring of losing the one they love, than it makes them seem as both.
2006-07-17 17:01:42 · answer #5 · answered by pilotmanitalia 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think they care a lot, but they're too afraid of putting their heart on the line and being rejected. Guys get scared about love even more than girls do, sometimes.
2006-07-17 16:02:26 · answer #6 · answered by poeticjustice 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because guys really do care, but it is deemed by scoiety that they shoudlnt care and should be king of theland and get any woman they want. However, some of us men chose to care and do get upset in the idea of losing someone we love.
2006-07-17 16:03:02 · answer #7 · answered by Drew 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you believe that then you are lost.
Guys do care if we lose someone we love.
We are just programmed different than you women are.
You women expose your feeling to the world. Where as we men feel the pain but suck it up because we have had it drilled into us that men do not cry, whine , pout or anything like that.
We just deal with it and move on.
2006-07-17 16:04:21 · answer #8 · answered by Biker 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We try not to get too attached to a girl because we know every relationship is bound to break up. Most of us don't believe in fairy tales, but if we care so much about you, we don't want to lose you, even though we know we will. We try to make it last as long as it can.
~Thomas
2006-07-17 16:02:50 · answer #9 · answered by tomhanken 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh plz they got to play the tuff guy act n act like they dont care but u let someone they love break up with em n they cry just like a lil girl
2006-07-17 16:02:31 · answer #10 · answered by devil_queen_biatch14 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We do care. We just cant let women see it. When a woman knows she has a man by the heart she will walk all over him and treat him as a wuss. Blame your own kind for doing that to us. Women want men to express themselves but when we do you rip us appart. So we keep it to ourselves as a protectionary measure.
2006-07-17 16:05:37 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋