When I have sex, I like it as rough and hard as possible. I love to be humiliated, talked down to, and ordered around. I like to be tied up and used. I like for my hair to be pulled and when I'm close to orgasm, I like to be choked. Ever since I've experienced this, "normal" sex does nothing for me anymore. Is there something wrong with me? Please no "you're disgusting" type answers, I really need some help and guidance here.
2006-07-17 08:55:05 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
DEFINATELY.
IT'S OK TO DO FREAKY THINGS SOMETIMES BUT (UNFORTUNATELY 4 YOU)YOU HAVE BECOME USED TO KINKY SEX AND MAY NO LONGER BE ABLE TO MAKE LOVE.
YOU WILL NEED TO GET HELP BECAUSE ITS NOT NORMAL TO WANT THAT TYPE OF SEX EVERY TIME.
WHAT ARE YOU GOING TO DO NEXT?
ACT OUT A SCENE FROM HOSTLE WHILE YOU'RE F*CKING?
IF YOU KEEP GOING DEEPER INTO THE FREAKY DIRECTION YOU WONT BE ABLE TO RETURN TO NORMALITY.
DONT LISTEN TO THE PERSON ABOVE,ITS OK BUT NOT ALL THE TIME.
WOULDN'T IT BE NICE TO BE WITH SOMEONE WHO YOU TRULY AND DEEPLY LOVE WITH ALL OF YOUR HEART AND SOUL ?
TO MAKE LOVE TO THAT PERSON(NORMAL LOVE)WOULD BE MAGICAL AND BEAUTIFUL.
BUT SPEAK TO SOMEONE.
SOMEONE WHO UNDERSTANDS YOUR PROBLEMS.
A SEX SPECIALIST OR THEARAPIST.
2006-07-17 11:41:05 · answer #1 · answered by PG 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that could make sense... i can imagine it being a turn on... and after you have experienced true pleasure nothing will do any more!
i guess reasons you may like being looked down on is maybe you are quite controling in normal life and having a female with control makes you feel i duno.. its just something some people like!! sounds fun.. i wana try some of that.. but im not dominant enough!! aww..
2006-07-17 09:04:29 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that this is not normal. There are people with such fetish but I think your goes beyond normal. I would consider going to a therapist. Has something happened in your childhood that caused you to like such rough sex?
2006-07-17 08:59:34 · answer #3 · answered by fasb123r 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to ask yourself: Why does it turn you on? It sounds like you have some "issues" but unless you talk this out it's gonna be hard to figure out what the deal is.
2006-07-17 08:59:06 · answer #4 · answered by Fox 34 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need more help than you can get here - professional help to find out why you think you deserve punishment. Good luck.
2006-07-17 09:01:38 · answer #5 · answered by love2travel 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing wrong if you enjoy it. Just play safe.
2006-07-17 09:14:44 · answer #6 · answered by Jolly1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Um i dont know, I think whatever you enjoy is okay.
2006-07-17 09:01:10 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just an answer to your question... yep, you are pretty screwed up
2006-07-17 09:00:14 · answer #8 · answered by lovesyourdiamond 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋