Tell her you love her. If she says it back....there you go. If she asks what you want for lunch, she probably doesn't.
2006-07-17 08:49:27
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answer #1
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answered by Anonymous
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The best way to get back your ex is https://tr.im/JzqIQ
Here's the hard part: Pretend she never existed, like it was all a dream, don't call her, that will make you the smaller person, be the bigger person since you deserve better, what she did to you on Valentines Day was immature, especially after dating for four years. This person wasted allot of your time and through it out the window. Go out tonight, even it it is only yourself, don't drink and call or feel sorry for yourself, this will only cause you embarrassment! I know your hurting..This will eventually will go away in time. Today is not a good day for you and your emotions are spinning all over the place.
Please, whatever you do, don't answer her calls and don't call her. If she keeps calling, which she pro bally won't, don't return her call for 5 days. Make her sweat and DO Not get back together right away if you discuss this in 5 days. Tell her since she Broke up with you, you have done allot of thinking, and had the taste of "being single again" and you would like more time being "friends" for now, so you are sure you are making the right decision. Remember "She decided she didn't want to be with you" so the door is open for you to get out and see what you have been missing for four years. You honestly need to do this for yourself.
She doesn't know, but what she did was give you the best valentines day present you will ever get! A new start and a new beginning, use it to your advantage. You will look back on this and Thank God this happened now instead of 4 more wasted years of YOUR life. Today does suck, stay Strong and I promise you your life is going to be so much more exciting and you are going to be happy. If you continue to call and call her, she will think of you as needy and won't want you. She is going to rethink what she did to you today and will be hurt, if you act like you could care less. Girls always want the ones they can't have. That is who you are now to her. Let her suffer,realizing what a mistake she made. This will drive her crazy. Right now she is on cloud 9 thinking you will take her back, OH, is she stupid!
Your life isn't ruined, hers is..She lost someone special, and gave you a gift to let to live life and find someone you deserve. You are not getting back at her, your teaching her what an idiot she is and what she lost and what you gained without her. SO when You eventually talk to her, tell her thank you for what she did...
She will be hurt and you will be happy!
2016-07-19 19:16:05
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answered by ? 3
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The truth is U already know if she loves U or not. Her actions speak for themselves. If she loves U it will show in the little things, pay close attention, woman have a tendency to do little things to show that we care and sometimes men miss them. If she's very thoughtful and worries about U alot, ya know she calls to check on ya or goes outta her way to do something for U then YES she does love U but maybe she's affraid to say the words.
If U love her, BITE THE BULLET and just tell her. Chances are she already knows the answer without U even saying it.
Too often people abuse those 3 little words and so sometimes just showing it is better than actually coming out and saying it.
2006-07-17 08:53:24
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answered by HeartsOnFire 2
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Proof is not what you want, it's trust in your girlfriend, as for finding out, ask her if she feels she does, it is not an easy question to answer, when you are on the spot.
so see how she feel about you and then TRUST her, instead of looking for proof, what kind of proof?, a hand written scroll?. Cmon have a little faith in her.
2006-07-17 08:55:04
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answered by Anonymous
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Want to know how to get your ex back? Change yourself. Don't worry about changing other people, worry about changing yourself. Go to https://tr.im/djSqQ
Once you do that then you can start to worry about getting back together with your ex, other wise you will find that you are fighting about all the same things and getting no where. Do what it takes and I promise things will work out in your favor.
The funny thing is I came to the realization that I had to change a little too late. After I was kicked out and after I was about to lose the only things that truly mattered to me - her love. A funny thing happens when we truly love someone and lose them. We do what ever it takes to get them back. For me I had to drop bad habits that had caused not only our relationship to sour but practically every other relationship I had had in the past. Not only with women, but with friends, co-workers, family, you name it.
Which is why I say to you as my ex at the time said to me, the only thing you can do is change yourself. Work on yourself and improve on the person that you already are. Drop the negative things in your life that don't belong there and you will see all of your relationships start to take off to new heights.
2016-04-23 18:53:25
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answered by ? 3
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You don't ask you just know; and there is never a way of getting proof
2006-07-17 08:49:47
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answered by Anonymous
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take her by the hands and look deep into her eyes: ask her "do you love me?". and dont lose eye contact until she makes eye contact with you and if she says "yes" without delay and look back at you for sure she loves you. YOu love your girl. i can tell that but what i am noticing here its that maybe you guys have a lack of communication which means attention, and affection. why else would you be asking us here?. hm.. maybe you need to talk to her straight out and tell her "baby sometimes i feel like i am like whatever to you". and then she ll answer you wats up. That is what my bf told me and it wasnt because I was like whatever with him but it was because i had too many problems in my mind i have not noticed i was not paying that much attention to him. Sometimes we need a person to point our flaws out and thats how we grow. Who else better than a partner?. Yeah . You should talk to her and i ll give you a tip use the word " I feel..." because when you point it out to the girl like "You are the cause of my pain" shes going to get really hurt. Talk to her and try to be more affectionate and attentive. ANd if she doesnt do the same things for you point it out if she still does not do the same things then maybe she doesnt love you as much as you do . BUt then why is she with you in the 1st place?.
2006-07-17 08:55:26
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answered by Dr. Truth 3
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Well if u realy luv her then u would trust her when she says anything!!!!! And i thiunk the best way to ask her is sit down w/ her and explain ur feelings w/ her. Then when ur done say " And if im going to have da relationship w/ u then i need to kno if u feel the same way? But whatever way u ask her and whatever she says u need to trust her!!!
2006-07-17 08:52:42
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answered by Anonymous
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Just ask her out right - its the easest thing to do!
Proof does not exist, but if she is up for a little horizontal action then you might be on to something!
2006-07-17 08:50:09
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answered by lunapilot 2
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You must first tell her you love her and if she says it back, then she is telling you she loves you. The only proof you can get is by how she treats you. Actions tell all!
2006-07-17 08:52:39
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answered by kb 4
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You can't 'prove' that you love someone by doing anything. You should be able to tell by the way that she looks at you, the way she speaks to you and the way she makes you feel.
Maybe have a talk about your relationship, where its headed and where you see yourself in the future.
2006-07-17 08:49:54
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answered by Anonymous
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