There is this guy and we've been over for atleast two months and I'm still not over him! WHATS THE DEAL?
2006-07-17 08:31:28 · 5 answers · asked by samantha b 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hearts don't mend in a day, week, month, sometimes even years. The deal, is you are still focused on your self and him. You probably continue to dredge up memories and go to places and see people that were a part of the two of you. You have to start with the thought process. Don't allow your mind to take trips down memory lane. When you find yourself thinking about things and the person you were with, you need to focus on setting new goals for yourself. You need to be around friends or co-workers. Stay busy and always have a plan for the next day. When you awake in the mornings, you get up, shower, dress and always fix yourself up. Head for the front door and get out there and live. Its hard! But eventually, it becomes a routine. One morning you will wake up and the hard part from the break up is like a bad dream. The "ordeal" is over, and you have a fresh new mind set and ready to mentally and physically take the world on again.
2006-07-17 08:44:59 · answer #1 · answered by smplyme132 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey its ok 2 feel like that i still love my x.its gonna b a while till u get over him.just keep tryin 2 get over hom or try 2 get him back and go out wit him it worked 4 me.my x said he neva wanted 2 tlk 2 me again but i kep tryin and now were tlkin.
2006-07-17 08:36:18 · answer #2 · answered by JEF2KRF 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you still love him or you havent found someone better than him.I had the same problem in my case it was at least 4 months so u are better,but dont worry YOU WILL DEFINATELY FIND A SOULMATE
2006-07-17 08:48:10 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
one thing, get with your girl friends, go and do girl things, keep busy, don't even look at other guys, then poof, great boyfriend wrapped around your little pinky. trust me when your not looking, thats when the best one comes along.
2006-07-17 08:37:39 · answer #4 · answered by tgdjm 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its hard and im trying to get over my fiance who just left me last nite :( i guess we just need to move on or something but its really hard... good luck n tell me how u dealt with it
2006-07-17 08:34:34 · answer #5 · answered by diamondprincezz456 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋