Should you let your boyfriend's MySpace comments effect the relationship?

Question

He says it's just Myspace junk, but the comments he leaves these girls I know, and he knows personally, are quite disturbing. He knows I read what he writes to others on Myspace. But, it's like he doesn't have any consideration to care how I feel about it. Like I'm invincible or something. Also, he doesn't know this, but I have his password to his account. The things he says, it's like I don't exist at all. Is it wrong to break up with him based on his Myspace?

Answer 1

There are two types of guys that do that from what I know: the jerk and the guy with an ego. The jerk does it cause he doesn't care for you. The guy with an ego does it cause he wants to appear to be dominant in the relationship or uncontrollable by you. Either way, I'd say move on unless he decides to change knowing that you are serious about leaving him.

Answer 2

Honey, I think you know what the right thing to do is, but you're just having a hard time letting go. If what he is doing, you find "disturbing" or you feel "he doesnt have any consideration " to how you feel than you know what you need to do.
I know when I'm in a good relationship, I'm not spending my time talking to other men on the computer. There's definitely no need for me to talk to men I dont know already unless its a business or family thing. If he's acting like you dont exist already... then maybe you shouldnt exist in his life. I know its tough, I was in the same situation but I gave him the boot. I found out later that he was not only talking on the computer but flirting and had intentions on eventually cheating.... that's where it all leads.

Answer 3

I wouldn't take that. My ex was the same way. He had his stat as 'single' on MySpace while we were dating, and constantly left flirty comments to his friends that were girls...even to the ones that I knew liked him, and did nothing about it. He didn't care for my feelings, and when one of his friends made a move on him...he did nothing to stop it. I would take into consideration how he is acting and treating you. He obviously does not care enough to think of how you feel about it. Think about him, and if he's worth the heartbreak. I say move on from him. There's guys out there that won't do that to you, and keep your emotions in mind all the time.

Answer 4

If he's disrespecting you now, what's going to be happening down the road, when he gets "tired" or "bored"?

I used to hope for the best, but in the past month have stumbled on Jerry Springer. Don't get me wrong, I had heard on him and his show, but now after watching it, cannot believe how shallow some people are.

No, it wouldn't be wrong to break up with him. If he really cared he's spend more time with you and less on MySpace.

Answer 5

first if its being said on the internet where anyone can read it, what makes you think it isnt being said behind colsed doors? and if you where to break up with him it wouldnt be based on myspace. it would be based on the fact that he doesnt care enough to stop doing something that he knows is bothering you. I dont think its wrong of you to break up with him, but dont say its because of myspace, the real reason is that you dont trust him and that you feel he doesnt care about what you think.

Answer 6

guy here..... I think that you should pay attention to the comments. Don't be a fool - guys cheat, girls cheat... if you have found evidence of him being disrespectful or unfaithful, then move on. There are pleanty of people out there to choose from.

Answer 7

first issues, no longer all Asians are skinny and small compared to you large people,2d you experience rigidity appears like peer rigidity, only once in a lengthy time period tell your boyfriend that you adore him

Answer 8

no. ive had that happen to me