The guy I'm seeing, says he doesn't like to kiss. I love to kiss, I'm a sensual person, there are times when we are staring each other in the eyes, inches away from each other... it would be the perfect time for a kiss, and I remember what he said about kissing, so I won't make the move, I wait for him.... but he never does! Do think it's possible to get him to change????
2006-07-17 07:26:13 · 20 answers · asked by prmommy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
wow....this sounds so much like my 11 year relationship. I woke up one morning in the 11th year of my relationship and said "Oh my god" I just couldnt believe that he never wanted a deep penetrating sensual kiss. Now my partner would kiss me but only on the lips, he never frenched kiss as they say. I couldnt believe that I had gone on for 11 years and never realized it. I brought it up to him one day and was astounded with the answer....he said he thought that I never wanted to kiss him like that because he was a heavy smoker and drinker and that his breath was kinda gross. I was dumbfounded.....your man could be embarrassed about his breath OR maybe he doesnt know how to kiss you like that. Ask him again why he will not kiss you like that and ask him if you could take the inititive. maybe one night when you two are ready to make love (if your relationship is that advanced) youcan blindfold him and do things to him that you have always wanted to do, that may arise a deeper passion in him as well, and with him being blindfolded it may make it easier for you to approach him for that blissful kiss. Good Luck !!!
2006-07-17 07:33:31 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
There's plenty of things you can do that aren't kissing (and here I'm not talking about things more intimate than kissing either.) Generally, the face, neck, finnger, palms, wrists, inside of the elbow, and armpit are all very sensitive tissue and are safe to play around with (ie: aren't any more likely than kissing to lead to unplanned pregnancy) The same can be said for toes, the backs of the knees, and the small of the back, but those are hard to get to without some interesting acrobatics.
In any of those areas, tracing your nails, gentle rubbing, kissing, breathing softly, biting gently, licking, etc... can be as much fun as kissing.
2006-07-17 07:38:00 · answer #2 · answered by rickthewonderalgae 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No move on baby. I was shortly dating the same type-the guy was so sexy and good looking, such nice character, but he did not like to kiss and even when I asked him repeatedly to do it he did it very badly. I was not able to change him so I moved on. Sex is very important part of a relationship so if he can't deliver in the long run you will be sorry you stayed with him.
2006-07-17 07:30:51 · answer #3 · answered by fasb123r 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
C'mon, kiss the guy. Sometimes it's nice for the woman to take the initiative. Now grab a pack of Trident and get to work!
2006-07-17 07:29:43 · answer #4 · answered by Vosot 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did he say why he doesn't like to kiss? Maybe he had a bad experience. Talk to him about it and tell him how you feel about kissing - maybe he'll come around....could be that kissing will really make him give in to you....hmmmm - you know men are funny like that sometimes...best wishes!
2006-07-17 07:31:59 · answer #5 · answered by Love4Life 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i just think its stupid how someone doesnt like kissing. mayb you should make the move and kiss him so good that he will kiss you next time for some more. you just got to make him love the kiss and keep on coming back for more. good luck.
2006-07-17 07:29:56 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The biggest mistake that most women make is thinking that they can make a guy change. You can't. You can tell him how you feel, but the change will ultimately be up to him.
2006-07-17 07:30:10 · answer #7 · answered by big_dog832001 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Very much so, it take time and pateince but when he gets more into you he will kiss you more often because you want it,...for right now just tell him how you feel and dont pressure him...you'll be fine
2006-07-17 07:29:48 · answer #8 · answered by Mrs Wright 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He doesn't like to kiss? Dump him immediately. There is something fundamentally wrong with him.
2006-07-17 07:29:26 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well dear,maybe hes afraid or maybe he dont know how,so what you should do is take the lead and see if he gets caught on to it,like i said maybe you need to show him how.,or maybe he thinks hes not very good at it,like hes embarassed about it.so go ahead and show him.
2006-07-17 07:31:19 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋