Why do guys only look at the outside of a girl, insteasd of the inside, the most inportant part of a girl?

Answer 1

men are very, very sight based persons. but i look on the inside. to me, all pple are pretty. all i need is a girl pure of heart, christian spirit, posotive attitude, and loving heart.

Answer 2

Why does a person look at sweet desserts and want them when they only add tonnage? Eye appeal. Most people learn at sometime though that it's what's inside that really counts. No excuse for not keeping oneself neat and as attractive as possible on the outside.

I personally am sick of seeing lazy people who don't give a hoot about what other people think of them in their way too small outfits or excess weight that is there because they are too lazy to do anything about it. Even overweight people can look neat with a little caring. And the hairdos--some people don't even bother to fix their hair. We have so many helps in this day and age to look a little better. But it takes a little effort. A little effort can go a long way.

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Answer 3

People are first attracted by looks then by personality. But there is a limit...Personally, I can not stand being with people that are overweight due to the differance in opinions and enjoyment of activities.
I am active -- bike, swim, weight train, and martial arts. I have found that people that are overweight tend not be able to keep up and don't enjoy the same activities I do. I do, however, have a few friends that are overweight and one of them I work out with and provide my insights.
If you are talking about not being over weight, but say a bad nose, face, etc... then I would suggest getting to know the guys. As you get to know them many guys, not all, will put looks second. Also consider talking to friends about how to look better, de-emphasize aspects of your body.
Oh...and I was overweight (BMI was about 28) and I was 6'4 240/250 lbs at one point...So I know I can lose the weight so can others....

Answer 4

Not all guys are the same. Most guys only care about the outside. As guys get older more and more care about the inside too. I beleive its important to have physical attraction. But, I think whats on the inside is far more important. You need both tho.

Answer 5

what we see on the outside makes the decision if we want to go take a look at the most important part of a girl inside

Answer 6

Attraction is about chemistry and pheromones and overall (note I use the word attractiveness) is very important to get the initial chemistry going.
Males also tend to look from first impressions. If you are sullen, no open, and moody, it does not matter how beautiful you are because your energy will be immediately off putting. If you want more contact then you need to be open to it, instead of hiding your personality inside. If you let it be out in the open guys will see it and judge you by it.

Answer 7

for the very same reason girls only look at the outside of a guy instead of the inside, the most important part of a guy.

Answer 8

Men have to be physically attracted to a girl in some way before they will even get to know who they are on the inside. Most men are not like us women when it comes to our emotions and feelings. Remember women are more mature, so it will take men longer to get to that point where a women begins.

Answer 9

because some boys are just ******* idiots. But I'am not intrested in girls[dont think I'am gay] its just that conserving wildlife is more important than having sex. Most boys actually do choose the girls from the inside. If your having this problem with your boy friend just remember its not about wearing mini skirts or showing of your body, its the inside that really counts.

Answer 10

Ya know, girls judge a guy by their appearance too. You don't always have time to get to know people. An easy alternative is to judge a book by it's cover. Usually people who are fit are way too into themselves or they just like to feel good about themselves and people who are overweight or just kinda boring looking either don't care about themselves enough to look and feel better or they're just slobs. So if you want someone to judge you for who you are look how you feel. If you don't feel good enough about yourself as a person to be concerned with your appearance then that's something you should work on first....sorry for the long/confusing answer.

Answer 11

because the outside is the is the firest thing they see and most of them cant get passed that not like some the rare few that look beyond the outside to see the beauty within then again women do the same thing