When choosing the woman you want to marry would you choose the sexually experienced partner or a virgin who would you choose and why and then why do guys love to date girls who have sexual experience and run when a girl confess that she is a virgin ?
2006-07-17 06:52:57 · 18 answers · asked by playful 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Having the choice I would pick a virgin, what extrordinary will power and commitment, great qualities in a wife.
I've never heard of "guys running" from a confessed chaste girl, usually I hear women telling me about the "older guys" who "worked on them" until she gave in. Maybe it's guilt or even fear in men that they don't know HOW to be with someone for the first time.
I think if anything there's too many men and women who don't value the special gift of a woman's chastity and take it for granted or throw it away.
2006-07-17 07:02:25 · answer #1 · answered by R J 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I choosing women that their personality, fun, out going, trust, honest, commucate..etc. I don't care if you virgin or already have sexual experience... don't care is what I do with person that have all that. Is the best.
I married to a woman who we married for 9 years and 2 beautiful kids and she and I always try new things. Even if my wife was a virgin. no matter Long it have personality, fun, out going, trust, honest, commucate..etc. .... If they think sexual experince or/and virgin is imporant then the relationship or/and marriage will not last.....
I know I am a guy... I am glad to answer your question smiling.
2006-07-17 14:18:36 · answer #2 · answered by greenbaypackers1920 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i prefer a virgin, because, if she isn't i may not be the best she has evr had, so what if i am in bed and she is thinkin about someone else, plus the sexually experienced has to have been with someon else sexually experienced who was with someone else sexuall experienced and so on you get the picture. And a virgin is pure and untarnished it also show that she is waiting for the right guy and not just any guy.
2006-07-17 13:58:00 · answer #3 · answered by Paktown 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If I were to the point that I wanted to settle down.. I would by far pick the virgin. As a guy you are going to mean a lot more to her, and thus a better chance of it working out in the end. However who wants to stick out a relationship without sex if you really don't plan on getting tied down anyways?
2006-07-17 13:55:59 · answer #4 · answered by fosterb_2004 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would choose the one that i love. i would think that the problem in marrying a virgin is that I would be the only one that she has been with {which is a plus in one big way} but i dont think that we be together long because she going to expierence other men to see what she is missing.
2006-07-17 14:00:29 · answer #5 · answered by Robby V 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know how guys are where you're from, but MOST of my friends like the "challange" of being with a virgin....sounds bad, I know, but they see it as a game. If a guy is insecure, he'll tend to to shy away from someone with too much experience.
2006-07-17 13:56:47 · answer #6 · answered by esko1269 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think i would end up being with the woman I love. That being said I would prefer the virgin simply because to me it shows her moral fiber.
2006-07-17 14:06:28 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If I fell in love, I wouldn't care if she was a virgin or not dear...though I doubt that a virgin can handle all of my man meat.
2006-07-17 13:55:52 · answer #8 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would rather marry a virgin because i am also one and guys date girls with expirence because they have a better chance to have sex virgins are less likely to give it up they dont want to go to hell
2006-07-17 13:57:55 · answer #9 · answered by ACE 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girls tend to get way too attached to the guy that takes their virginity. it brings a new level of commitment into the relationship, and a lot of guys want nothing to do with that.
2006-07-17 13:56:33 · answer #10 · answered by Hunter S. Thompson 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋