i find this to be true. i am 16 and all of my friends that are girls like 17 and 18 year olds and my little sister is almost 13 and her friends, most of which are 13 and 14, like me. my girlfriend is 14 and i love her to death but i just dont understand
2006-07-17 06:47:30 · 33 answers · asked by everett k 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i think its pretty unamious, but then why do some guys like girls a little younger than they are? please dont give me the same bull$hit answers you gave to the first one, cuz i know that, but any other ideas
2006-07-17 14:04:19 · update #1
Because older is sexier! I once dated a guy that was 16 years older than me and we always had a "good time" on the balchony, in the batheroom on the table on the living room floor vcoffee table, couch. oh yeah the bedd too, his truck the hood of his car...................in other word it was really fun!
2006-07-17 06:49:51 · answer #1 · answered by Nikki 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The one word that sums this question up is "maturity," and it's most likely not anything you can fight against. Men mature more slowly than women, usually both physically and mentally. Typically girls find older boys more attractive simply because they're closer to the maturity level of the girl. There's also this secret thrill that many girls enjoy of dating someone older than they are.
However, it sounds like you've got a good relationship with a girl who's enjoying dating an older boy. It's especially positive when you have professed such love and affection for her. Keep that up and you'll find a satisfying relationship with her. On the other hand, look forward to getting older. Trust me, when you're 30 and there are 23-24 year-old girls hitting on you, you won't be complaining a bit.
Best of luck to you.
2006-07-17 06:53:13 · answer #2 · answered by bibliophile_1976 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women mature faster than boys do, so it's natural that girls like older boys when they're in their teens and 20s. That all changes however after 30. Then, it's open territory and women will even begin to date younger men.
2006-07-17 06:52:38 · answer #3 · answered by kim w 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girls want a man at there own level my boyfriend is 9 months older than me and is the youngest guy I ever dated seriously and there is a huge differance. He is way behind me as far as he still acts liek he's 23 and he's almost 28.
2006-07-17 06:55:13 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Older guys are very appealing. In general they have a whole lot more to offer than boys your own age. Plus you don't have to worry about being as immature as guys your own age. Of course there are acceptions but in general have an older guy is better not to mention how good it makes you fell in front of your friends
2006-07-17 06:57:18 · answer #5 · answered by grace 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well have you ever heard that girl's minds mature a bit faster than men's tis is true with most, that may be the answer to your problem. Girls look for a guy on the same mental level as they have.
2006-07-17 06:51:29 · answer #6 · answered by Paktown 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys mature more slowly than girls...as teens, girls generally go a few yrs older to find a maturity-match in a guy...don't worry, the dudes tend to catch up before long...
2006-07-17 06:51:31 · answer #7 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In my opinion, and experiences a guy that is younger than me is usually not as mature as me, my man is almost three years older than me and we're on the same page.
2006-07-17 06:51:39 · answer #8 · answered by jess_brenda_04 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Simply, usually we need the older ones b/c the same age or younger are still in party mode or not serious enough for us to consider dating. We're looking for someone to settle down with, not someone just to party with.
2006-07-17 06:51:42 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If a girl goes out with someone younger its ususally when the guy is 20 or more & if they are mature enough. usually guys under 20 are still kids. sorry
2006-07-17 06:53:19 · answer #10 · answered by CALI GIRL 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋