Went to 6 flags recently and my bf denies that he was looking at other women even thought I caught him looking while in the water park and there were women in bikinis everywhere. I will 30 years old in 2 days and obviously wasn't born yesterday. Just looking to see what others think. Let me know ppls.
2006-07-17 06:20:23 · 32 answers · asked by lil_blu101 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I should hope so...just because a guy (or gal) is in a relationship it doesn't mean they're dead...looking doesn't = desiring...there's no reason anyone, single or otherwise, cannot look and appreciate another human they find attractive...noticing someone else has nothing to do with how much one appreciates or loves the partner they are with...
2006-07-17 06:25:19 · answer #1 · answered by . 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
A man's testosterone requires that he be aware of his surroundings, even when he's at ease. If you walk into a shower full of naked men, he will still have knowledge of his surroundings and make sure he knows what's going on around him. The fact that you are dating him doesn't make every other woman on the planet suddenly ugly. I'm sure you would make it so if you had the power, but that's why God didn't give it you. Lusting for a woman is wrong, even when dating, but as long as he doesn't desire to be with any of those women, there is no harm done in admiring beauty where there is beauty on display.
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2006-07-17 06:23:31 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Chill. It's quite alright to look at the menu (and this goes for you too) so long as you don't order from it. That being said, it's perfectly natural for both guys and gals to look at others. Is he hitting on these women or cheating? If not, quit obsessing over it. I just turned 30 a couple weeks ago...don't let the freakout over that make you feel insecure.
2006-07-17 06:30:04 · answer #3 · answered by SuperJenn 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have some bad news for you and that is we all are were given eyes to enjoy the view. This does not mean we are going out and jump every one we see but we as human "man and women" are going to look at something or someone we find attractive. remember the old saying that {does not matter where we get our appetite as long as we eat at home}.
2006-07-17 06:25:51 · answer #4 · answered by justduh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes. looking at women in bikinis at a waterpark is no big deal unless you make something out of nothing. he went there with you to spend time with one another,not to find another women.
the bikini girls wear the bikini's fully knowing they'll be checked out. as with guys who take off there shirts to get some sun and maybe flex a little for the ladies. nothing wrong with looking, and if you get jealous about looking, you are making something out of nothing, and will only be to blame if the relationship go rocky.
2006-07-17 06:36:30 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is all right for him to look. He is with you right. As long as he is not after the other women then it is fine. My bf looks at other women all the time and we laugh about it together. I say he can look but can't touch. Give the guy some freedom.
2006-07-17 06:24:39 · answer #6 · answered by *Shayla* 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not sure if every man does, but my husband does and I mostly notice it at the amusement parks and water parks also, too funny! Probably because amusement parks attract alot of young gals and the temperatures are usually hot so they are dressed scantily. I just have to learn to get over it and not take it personally. :)
2006-07-17 06:25:20 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course we all look but it's a matter of being discrete. If he is openly gawking at a chick, then you have a right/reason to be upset as i think it's disrespectful to do that. If it's a casual glance, let it go. there is nothing wrong with admiring beauty.
2006-07-17 06:26:19 · answer #8 · answered by MadMaxx 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am happily married and I look at women all the time...even in front of my wife. She is very cool with it. I sometimes even make comments to her like, "Check out the Ta Ta's on that girl". God made eyes to look...and made hands, but these hands are strictly for my wife. You got to be open and trust him.
2006-07-17 06:28:05 · answer #9 · answered by Curious George 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
sweetheart this things do happens, but sumtimes you have to realise that if you were in his shoes at that time you would have probably done the same thing.A bunch of ladies in bikinis thats sumthing else you should tell him that you can look but you cant touch as he knows that he can only embrace his eyes but i think tou doubt your self and you making him awhare and that mite cause problems to your relashionship please dont loose confident.He is with you isnt he?so you have nothing to worry about
2006-07-17 06:37:10 · answer #10 · answered by kiddo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋