I'm just wondering what you people think I should do. It doesn't mean Im going to do it and I may do something totaly different but I just want some feedback.
Theres this guy I really like who I know really well. We are great friends and he's a nice guy. I think we both know how we feel about eachother, but I just want to get it out there, however I dont really want to stright up say how I feel. I would really like him to tell me how he feels first. We both know we like eachother, but everytime we make advances nothing seems to happen.
2006-07-17 06:10:41 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, He just wont tell me, think i should make the 1st move or what? I do, I mean he is about it then he changes the subject, whats up with him??
2006-07-17 08:56:05 · update #1
OK Elizabeth, since you answered my question, I'll answer yours. Is this the shy guy you referred to in another question? (Sorry, I guess that's not an answer, but work with me here). It sounds like you have safe enough ground to flirt with him. Just something friendly. Like, say, if he teases you give him a little shove. That sorta thing. And you don't have to dress down, either.....just throwing that in because some girls think that helps. It doesn't. Not saying you would, but just giving my opinion there. Hope that helps!!
2006-07-17 14:58:51 · answer #1 · answered by spacedog1969 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should make the first move. It is often hard for the male because of ego. It seems that women or girls can handle this better. If you both have those feelings, he will thank you.
2006-07-17 06:58:55 · answer #2 · answered by just me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there's nothing wrong being friends then become lovers but... maybe he's still kinda thinking 'bout what will happen to ur friendship after he speak up whatever he feels inside... since you want more than friendship, it's ok if you do the first move... well, goodluck
2006-07-17 06:20:59 · answer #3 · answered by samz_eyes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if your waiting for him youll be waiting for a long time make the first move and save some time
2006-07-17 06:15:00 · answer #4 · answered by ACE 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes its better for the girl to tell the man how she feels,maybe you will take to long to tell him and eventually loose him for another that does tell him.
2006-07-17 06:13:04 · answer #5 · answered by Male Sicilian Trauma Nurse 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you might have to make the first move on him.
2006-07-17 06:13:16 · answer #6 · answered by party_2_hearty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if nothing happens either one or both of you are still virgins, right?
2006-07-17 06:13:55 · answer #7 · answered by handydaddy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i tell you something go and do sex wath hem and call me
2006-07-17 06:13:18 · answer #8 · answered by korn h 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah, just ask him out, would you? or don't. it's your call.
2006-07-17 06:14:44 · answer #9 · answered by powhound 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋