2006-07-17 05:37:51 · 68 answers · asked by CALI GIRL 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
As some one who has been forgiven, I would say yes...if we really loved each other and worked hard to rebuild trust. The world is full of gray areas. Sometimes black and white says NO WAY. sometimes gray would say " let's try to get through this together."
2006-07-17 05:43:51 · answer #1 · answered by photonic_beam 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The question is CAN YOU LIVE WITH OUT THIS GF OR BF. if the answer is no, then forgive that person and look ahead not at the back. At the end of the day who knows the next person who comes along might be doing worse but maybe he or she knows how to hide it well.
2006-07-17 05:40:15 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, while there may be reasons leading for up to sleeping with someone else, the forsaken-ness of our relationship isn't excusable. That hurts.
But I would still try to work things out and test the forgiveness part. I believe in theory, I wouldn't forgive.
2006-07-17 05:40:39 · answer #3 · answered by jlrgds 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forgive ="I won't try to hurt you like you hurt me"
Forgive does not = "I'll forget it and let's go on like nothing happened"
The relationship it's pretty much like a person who is brain dead. Yes you can keep it alive but why?
If he did it once, we will most likely do it again. At least it's as bf (not a husband). Better to move on.
2006-07-17 05:46:13 · answer #4 · answered by Sleepy Dad 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it ruins a relationship The trust is lost forever! Forgiving is one thing forgetting is another!
2006-07-17 05:42:13 · answer #5 · answered by wancarol 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would forgive, but probably end the relationship. Cheating is the cruelest betrayal and I would 't be able to trust them again.
2006-07-17 05:41:32 · answer #6 · answered by tnmtngirl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would forgive him but I would not forget what happened, nor would I trust him after that. As far as staying together goes, no way.
2006-07-17 05:40:57 · answer #7 · answered by Afrodite 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I might forgive him but I would never be in another relationship with them after that.
2006-07-21 09:24:21 · answer #8 · answered by stacenh18 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok if you love that person you wil but if you are not in love wit them you have to tell them that what they did was wrong and that you can't trust them ever agian but with love you have trust in them and hope that they never do it again and if they do put you through that all else to do is do the same as they've done to you
2006-07-17 05:42:40 · answer #9 · answered by da unknown poet 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I may forgive them eventually, but I would never trust them again, and I would break up with them.
2006-07-17 05:39:27 · answer #10 · answered by ItsJustMe 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋