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my sister is overweight and she always wears shirts that reveals her gut :( it is not a pretty sight to look at since she is too full of herself i decided to emberass her haha mean but she deserves it does anyone know a good way to do that?like a good remark

2006-07-17 05:37:09 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture Etiquette

she takes my money, clothes, deletes hw i do in the comp. shes 19 and very mean :( like i said she deserves it

2006-07-17 05:50:16 · update #1

14 answers

Take the higher road. Just because your sister's being a pain doesn't mean you have to either. Tell her you're sick of her stretching out your clothes, taking your money, etc.

If you can, create another user login to the computer. One that you have access to. (See user's manual for details). Just don't give her "Administrator Rights" -that should keep her from deleting your stuff.

Lastly, sit down and talk to her. Tell her that you don't appreciate her cruelty, that you'd expect a little respect, and not to be treated like some stranger.

If necessary (as childlike as this may sound), involve your parent(s) or guardian(s). Seek mediation.

Being mean back at her only lowers you to her level. Find clever ways of doing things, ones that aren't harmful physically or emotionally. Chances are she already has a self-image issue, so there's not need to make it worse by calling her a "fat @ss" or anything like that.

Instead, point out when something looks good (and fits her). Conversely, you could point out that a particular shirt (i.e., YOURS) doesn't look good on her. That there's something else she should wear.

Don't focus so much on the negative. Sometimes you can kill someone with kindness - so don't overdo it either.

Good luck.

2006-07-17 07:48:18 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 9 1

If you're sister doesn't have a problem with her gut, then you need to shut up and love her for her. Stop being so shallow. Someday you may realize that your appearance is not so admirable either and anyways, she can lose the weight but you're a jerk.

If she really is as mean as you say, then her fat gut does bother her but she doesn't know any other way to vent her frustrations with her body besides picking on you. My only answer is to kill her with kindness. Once she see's that what she's doing isn't affecting you, she'll go elsewhere. Good Luck.

2006-07-17 12:50:57 · answer #2 · answered by hubbabubba 2 · 0 0

Tell her that you love her. People like her are their own worst enemies AND their own worst punishment. I would feel sorry for her and try to help her overcome whatever is making her so unhappy. She's your sister and sooner or later, you'll regret any bad blood between the two of you. This would benefit you as well. You'll be the "bigger" person.

2006-07-17 13:05:16 · answer #3 · answered by Joe E 4 · 0 0

who put you in charge of your sister's life??

Grow up and leave her alone. If you make a remark that is so mean then Karma will come and get you later. Maybe you'll get fat after your first baby. Maybe you'll lose your sister 'cause she'll hate you for the rest of her life.

You are a mean beeyotch

2006-07-17 12:47:20 · answer #4 · answered by a1tommyL 5 · 0 0

Tell her she looks like a worm person. You know how they have that big thick yucky roll in their middles.

That would be a really mean thing to do, by the way.

2006-07-17 12:41:33 · answer #5 · answered by S 5 · 0 0

just tell her straight up that nobody wants to see her gut hanging out of her shirt. if she is full of herself she will probably deny it but deep down it will affect her and maybe she will start to realize that it is disgusting.

2006-07-17 12:42:16 · answer #6 · answered by LL Cool J 4 · 0 0

Maybe you present her something from close that gonna be better? And ask her to wear...Or just go with her to the shop and show her different close....Ask her to try some...

2006-07-17 12:51:44 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Start mooing at her every time she walks past you. On the occasion where you don't feel like mooing or are tired of it, snort and oink.

2006-07-17 13:27:41 · answer #8 · answered by brevejunkie 7 · 0 0

Wow, one is fat and the other is stupid, and you are both mean. What wonderful parents you must have had.

2006-07-17 12:41:08 · answer #9 · answered by Bethany 4 · 0 1

You're no better then she is, and you sound very immature.

2006-07-17 14:44:31 · answer #10 · answered by Rachel 7 · 0 0

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