2006-07-17 05:35:53 · 36 answers · asked by Sweety 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
My bf always insist on splitting the bills. Just like to do a small survey. Thanks for ur reply.
2006-07-17 05:45:55 · update #1
My bf frequently insist on splitting the bills. Just like to do a small survey.
2006-07-17 05:49:51 · update #2
we dutch... thats the best way out...
2006-07-17 05:39:48 · answer #1 · answered by DrAgOn 3 · 4⤊ 1⤋
It always like this "women wants equality but don't want to pay"
But it's very smart of your bf, he will probably rigged the survey to
result in his favor,of course you can do the same.But why do that ?
Offer to foot the bill so that you r more outstanding than any gals and brag about that in front of your galfrd.
Trust me it will work in your favour in the long run for certain obvious reason i can't elaborate
Maybe you would like to name your 1st orgasm after me for dispensing such an important advice if the guy does become your husband
2006-07-24 07:28:43 · answer #2 · answered by lucas l 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that depends on who's inviting to what, where and when...
if you're a guy, i know it would be a protocol to pay the bills when on dates and if sometimes you don't have much bread, i know it would sound awkward, but to save the embarassment of not able to pay the bill, it would be proper to ask your date if you could split the bill and make it up to her the next time you go out...your date may find it unusual but she'll understand if you make her understand the situation...
2006-07-17 05:44:03 · answer #3 · answered by curiosity 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'll split. Guys shouldn't have to go broke to get a chick's attention. Usually I pay if I'm the one who invited. But it never hurts for a guy to pay on the first date for a girl he's really attracted to. ^_^ Hope I helped. Best of luck.
2006-07-17 05:39:26 · answer #4 · answered by iambic_chatterbox 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My guy usually pays but last weekend he had to run an errand and he couldn't make it in time to buy the tickets so I told him I'll get it and when he got there and was giving me back the money I didn't accept and he was amazed and said he really like that and that he had never had a girl do that for him
2006-07-17 05:44:44 · answer #5 · answered by Triana 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My boyfriend and I do it all. Sometimes he pays, sometimes I pay, sometimes we split the bill. Just depends on if one of us is broke, having a bad day, whatever. It all evens out in the end.
2006-07-17 05:38:37 · answer #6 · answered by krd12 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The first few date, he paid for them. Then I started pay a few. Now, it's to the point where we argue who will pay. I think the first date should be paid for by the man, after there is nothing wrong with splitting it.
2006-07-18 04:31:39 · answer #7 · answered by prmommy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well depending on if you are interested in the guy just for his money, that you would always expect him to pay everything for you. But if you like the guy just for him, then splitting or offering to pay shouldn't be a problem.
The thing is, depend on your personality too. I have friends who boyfriend pays for everything because they would not date a guy who does not.
But personally for me, I don't like to owe a guy anything, I'm not comfortable having a guy pay for me unless I am confident that the relationship is going to last.
2006-07-17 06:55:28 · answer #8 · answered by jan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I usually always pay because I make twice as much as he does. He does not like this, but if I want to go out and do things, I don't mind. He wants to be the breadwinner and he will be in a few years, but for now I don't mind. He tries to pay whenever he can, but I do make more, and I acknowledge that.
2006-07-17 05:38:31 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the man asks the woman, then he pays.
If the woman asks the man, then she should pay. But if the man is a real gentleman he would offer to pay, especially if he intends to go back out with her.
"Going Dutch" or splitting the check is fine, but should be agreed on beforehand.
2006-07-17 05:47:24 · answer #10 · answered by Selkie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My boyfriend makes much more money than I do even though I'm considered very successful. I try to pay but he will seldom allow it. So, I pick up the tab in other ways...I'll pick up his cigarettes on the way over to his place or get sodas for his house, and I once in a while, I'm able to talk him into letting me pick up the tab for breakfast.
2006-07-17 05:40:07 · answer #11 · answered by SuperJenn 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋