I always flirt with boys but i end up saying something wrong or slurring my words...
2006-07-17 05:32:56 · 12 answers · asked by Amanda 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
1. The most important thing is eye contact when flirting. This is really the one single golden rule of flirting! Sounds easy, but can initially be difficult to establish for longer than a second or two. So when you next go out, find a guinea pig to practice on! Once you have decided on your target, look directly at him/her, then look away and always accompany this look with a smile. If they seem not to have noticed you, look again and this time smile directly at him/her. At first this really will be hard but once you get a reaction you will find your confidence will increase.
2. Once they have noticed you it is worthwhile having a few lines prepared for when they come over. However, if this does not happen, despite what you thought was a good reaction to your earlier eye contact, why don't you try approaching him/her? It could be that they are feeling just as unsure as you, so it's better to try rather than wonder what might have been.
3. When you do get to talk to them, always remember to be pleasant and smile whilst flirting - this will help put the other person at ease and also gives the impression that you are relaxed, even if inwardly you are shaking with nerves!
~hope this helps. If you have more questions please do not hesitate to ask!
2006-07-20 13:29:22 · answer #1 · answered by Bon Bon 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have to maintain eye contact and be in their personal space (if only for a moment). A casual touch (non-sexual) also may bring attention. The words are not as important.
2006-07-17 05:36:32 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best way to flirt is the other person should never feel that you are flirting instead should feel that you fallen for him
2006-07-17 05:49:51 · answer #3 · answered by Ansh 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Develop the art of firt wearing a miniskirt
2006-07-17 05:37:36 · answer #4 · answered by picasso 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Use visual techniques. A wink, licking your lips, sucking on a finger, and don't forget to smile.
2006-07-17 05:40:15 · answer #5 · answered by kram k 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Eye contact..is the best solution and smiling works too.
Take care.
2006-07-17 05:39:11 · answer #6 · answered by 4eva-pink 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's great - it's the point at which I know a girl is interested
2006-07-17 05:35:30 · answer #7 · answered by drsteve362005 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I still like the idea of winking at them --- old fashioned but it works
2006-07-17 05:35:17 · answer #8 · answered by jaimestar64cross 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes. the idea of eye contact and casual touchin is great
2006-07-17 05:45:20 · answer #9 · answered by koolmabash 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can tell you what I do, but not on here. IM or e-mail me at enyawe2000@yahoo.com. I am Angela.
2006-07-17 05:37:39 · answer #10 · answered by sapahaw 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋