does not wanting to breakup with my girlfriend because i know i will miss her mean that i am in love? this seems like something i should know but.... I guess i wonder sometimes that instead of lovers, we are more of best friends. any advice?
2006-07-17 05:14:47 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
why are you asking others if you are in love? You are the only one who will know the answer to that...
2006-07-17 05:16:56 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
there are many other factors to being in a relationship than your brief question covers. much of it depends on what stage of life you're in. if you are young and not looking to settle down yet, you might need a strong natural desire for the person you're dating. if you are at a point in life where you'd like to start a family, you might need less passion and more lifelong best friend potential. you can be lovers in either type of relationship. in the long term version, you need to think of love as something you do, not something you're in. if you want to stay with this girl for the long term, you'll need to love her, not be in love with her. being "in love" is such a fluctuating state that it's not possible to rely on it over the long term with any one person.
2006-07-17 12:26:53 · answer #2 · answered by smack 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its good that you are best friends. Work on the lovers part before you decide to call it quits. Oh a good relationship has alot of friendship in it. You might miss her coz its a habit to have her around but you might miss her coz u love her and u love having her in your life........Good luck.
2006-07-17 12:20:40 · answer #3 · answered by gracie g 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
After some point in time it is not about the sexual relationship but about the connection between the two of you.And it looks like in you do have the connection.Wat will you miss about her?What sought of feelings you get when you are around her?if by some sought of situation you arenot able to have sex with her, are u content with just being with her?If you can answer those questions truthfully then you will have your answer
2006-07-17 12:27:52 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is not love at all!!! This is jealousy! You're afraid you're gonna lose her, but now u don't love her any more...I think she became an obsession for you! If you know you'll miss her means she doesn't love you! If you stay with her you'll hurt your feelings and you'll stop her from being happy with the one she loves! You should have a chat with her and see if you should stay together or break up! It's your decision, but I think you should think at her, too!!
2006-07-17 12:25:46 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
to me if you break up with her then it's a reason why. But if you love her but there is still a reason that you need to let her go then and if you all are best friends then it meant to be that way from the get go sorry to tell you but leave her alone
2006-07-17 12:19:22 · answer #6 · answered by cherry 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you in love with the idea and thought that it's love that you're feeling towards your girl or do you really love the person?
if there's uncertainty about your relationship and feelings towards her, try building a solid foundation of friendship, try to get to know her more deeper. sometimes, a good friendship ends in true love.
2006-07-17 12:30:12 · answer #7 · answered by curiosity 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the best lovers are also your best friend. yes, you're in love...why are you thinking of breaking up?
2006-07-17 12:17:44 · answer #8 · answered by dooders90 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are in love with a person, believe me, you will know. Try dating another girl.
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2006-07-17 12:19:11 · answer #9 · answered by Glittering angel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
being open to each other like being best friends is the beginning of love....
2006-07-17 12:26:48 · answer #10 · answered by jen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋