everybody at school is in the bathroom doing "it" all the time and it makes me nervous all the time.
2006-07-17 05:11:02 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Teens Talk About Regrets After Sex
http://www.prolife.com/BOYFRNDS.html
I found this web site for teens, and their opinions
I hope this helps you make good choices, you are so young.
Plenty of time for the adult stuff later, be strong in your beliefs.
Maybe talk to your parents, they will be more understanding than you think, If need be write them a note and tell them you need to talk to them. And you need them to LISTEN.
Best of Luck
2006-07-17 05:22:17 · answer #1 · answered by american_angel068 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No sweety, do not pay attention to all these people, on the long run they will regret it and you still have time to save yourself. Having sex is an act of intimacy and feelings, it should never be done for any other reason but because you have feelings for each other. Otherwise you will not enjoy it and will regret it. Do not submit to the peer pressure. Five years down the line when those girls are turned into whores or pregnant at 18-19 years of age you will see that you did right by waiting.
2006-07-17 12:17:55 · answer #2 · answered by fasb123r 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO! Of course not! I'm 14, same as you! Just b/c other ppl are, doesn't mean I'm going 2, or have 2! If u have a bf and he wants u 2 don't! If he really luvs u he won't force u.
2006-07-17 12:17:44 · answer #3 · answered by wolfgirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no you dont have to lose it at 14.. it'd be better to wait.. the first time i did it.. i did it with someone i didnt love and i ended up regretting it and it just wasnt fun.. it was terrible.. and ima guy! so i cant imagine how a girl would feel.. dont do stuff just because people think its cool.. do stuff that feels right to you.. be true to yourself because it only matters what you think not what everyone else thinks..
2006-07-17 12:13:58 · answer #4 · answered by kakez 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldnt lose "it" until you are old enough to be able to be a good parent and support a child! You are a child yourself, that would be a big mistake for you right now. Refrain until you are older, who cares what everyone else is doing.
2006-07-17 12:15:46 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
None of these people care about themselves, obviously, so why listen to them about what to do? Their problem is that their mothers aren't active enough in their lives to teach them how to respect themselves and how to mature into successful women. You save yourself for marriage, sweetie, and you tell those kids that you're above that bullshit and that "My virginity is sacred and none of the bastards here deserve the honor."
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2006-07-17 12:13:44 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just because everyone is so called doing it.doesn't mean that you should. the only thing I would suggest to you is doing the education thing and to stay in school.No sex antil you are married.be a leader not a follower
2006-07-17 12:19:59 · answer #7 · answered by curious 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl don`t do it now .. ur boyfriend in the future will thank u lol guysz like virginsz better so just keep ur legsz closed til u find some1 u love!! lol i`m 15 & still a virgin .. SWEET!!
2006-07-17 12:15:27 · answer #8 · answered by FYeESHa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You dont have to loose your virginity at all if you don't want too. Do it when it feels right for you.
2006-07-17 12:15:42 · answer #9 · answered by korson90210 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no way! its better to wait.... if you do it now you might regret it for ever, wait untill your really in love with a guy and you want to be with him forever and you know he feels the same way about you
2006-07-17 12:15:24 · answer #10 · answered by happyrockerguy15 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋