ok um i broke up with my bf cuz he cheated on me but i still cant get over him even tho i have a new bf now who happens to hate my ex
anyways i accidentiley got drunk w/ my ex and we ended up makeing out and i told him i would go back to him
i want to go back to him bcuz ive already hurt him enuff but i promised my current bf i would nvr leave him for my ex
now wat!!!!??????
2006-07-17 04:57:24 · 27 answers · asked by just me 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
YOU ARE TOTALLY LAME.
You and your ex deserve each other.
Just don't expect your current bf to ever respect you again.
2006-07-17 05:01:29 · answer #1 · answered by jimvalentinojr 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
How exactly did you hurt your ex since you said that he cheated on you? He hurt you once. It might happen at another time in the future. Do you really want to deal with that all over again? You have doubts but think long and hard before acting upon the impulse. Plus, you should never break a promise.
2006-07-17 12:13:43 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't "accidentally" get drunk and make out with an ex. You wanted it, whether you admit it or not. You're obviously making promises to your current boyfriend that you can't keep. Drop them both, because anything you do would be unfair to the other. Grow up and learn to respect yourself. Figure out what you want and take it.
2006-07-17 12:02:21 · answer #3 · answered by The Central Scrutinizer 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I recommend that that you should still go out with your new boyfriend. Your ex has cheated on you once who says he wont again. I also don't think it would be fair to your new boyfriend if you all of a sudden told him " I'm dumping you for my ex". Imagine how he would feel!! I also think that if u remain with your new boyfriend your ex should understand and if he doesn't he is just being self centered. Hope the info helped
~Mel
2006-07-17 12:05:49 · answer #4 · answered by Melissa K 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off if you were drinking with your boyfriend getting drunk was no accident. You have no respect for yourself or your boyfriend to be in that situation to be honest. Wouldn't you say the same to someone else that did that?
If you lied to your current and cheated on your current you and your ex belong together.
2006-07-17 12:01:18 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
0.Wow. This sounds really bad. well don't listen to other people you are not a loser you just made a bad choice well a very bad choice.. i think that what you did was very wrong. Really, i don't think that you should be with either of the boys. You don't want to be with someone who cheated on you that's not cool if you go back to him he is going to think that he can cheat on you again and again and again so i think you should for sure not be with him.. and the new boyfriend..you need to let him go..you cheated on him and if he finds out hes going to break up with you anyways..but you are not going to find another boyfriend if you keep cheating on people.. and you getting drunk...its really not an excuse you need to stop drinking.. its really not good for you..just wait till your 21 you still have a whole life ahead of you. i use to drink it ruined my life,my parents trust, my old friends that i should have kept, the only people i have now is my boyfriend, his family, my family (of course even though they don't trust me any more) and i have one friend that's been there for me even though i made bad choices.. please stop drinking and wait till you get older..i promise you its soo worth it... and don't get into a realationship inless your not going to cheat on them..really you dont want to hurt anyone.
2006-07-17 12:14:36 · answer #6 · answered by Samatha P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your a loser and it is YOUR fault. You are dishonest and a cheater yourself. You left the one boyfriend because he cheated and then you go back and cheat with him. Are you kidding me? Take responsiblities for your actions and don't blame the alcohol for your loose ways. Let the 2nd boyfriend go because you aren't good for him. Go back to the cheater since the 2 of you have soo much in common.
2006-07-17 12:00:09 · answer #7 · answered by Mean Carleen 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know what....you are not married to either one of them so you can be with whoever you choose. Just keep in mind that if your boyfriend cheated on you before he probably will do it again.
You can't really be too mad at him because you just cheated with him on your new boyfriend.
Think about this before you make a decision either way, I suggest taking 24 hours before leaping in either direction.
2006-07-17 12:22:32 · answer #8 · answered by Kellie S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to make a choice. Did you like it when your ex cheated on YOU? Why would you do that to your current b/f?
2006-07-17 12:00:25 · answer #9 · answered by AsianPersuasion :) 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please Read
Stay away and feel d pain of losing ur 1st b/f; he'll no that he caused it. If u disappoint ur second b/f, u are not better than d 1st who disappointed u.
Remember. U have made a promise.
Let ur wrd b ur deed.
Ur tears will dry up.
2006-07-17 12:18:56 · answer #10 · answered by kinny 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋