This question is for women, not girls. Ladies what is you biggest complaint about the men you encounter when dating? Basically, do they not have a job, too cheap, no romance, etc.
2006-07-17 04:45:58 · 25 answers · asked by Futeach 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The men I've dated all had jobs of some kind, paid for the dates without complaint, and even did romantic things like bringing me flowers. But I'm not the type of person that really cares whether a guy is rich or even sentimental. These things can be easily reproduced by anyone and they don't really mean anything in end. What I have a hard time finding is someone with personal insight and insight into life. Someone who understands himself and is therefore in a position to understand others. Someone with a depth of character, is profoundly interesting to me, and can therefore be trusted to always be a turn-on.
2006-07-17 05:29:13 · answer #1 · answered by Skye 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
My biggest complaint online is guys never talk to you but just want to know what sex position you like.
However they are not so bold on dates. Once in a while you meet one that dives right into the sex conversation. The job thing is a concern if they are going to be a sponge on your finances. The main thing for me is if they can understand what you are talking about. Are you looking at a guy that is nothing but eyeballs or is there a functioning brain there.
2006-07-17 11:52:04 · answer #2 · answered by Fantasy Girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally men should have jobs and not to support us but to support themselves. I wouldn't want to be paying for everything. I think that most women don't care how much men spend on them just as long as there is a meaning. A guy should always be romantic. It is what keeps the fire burning. Any little thing a guy does for his girl. Gets major points.
2006-07-17 11:59:07 · answer #3 · answered by mandy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have met so many guys who really just want to sleep with me and call it a night, but they seem to think they have to pretend they really want to get to know me all night and never make the move I know they want to.... It makes me so frustrated! I would love for a guy to just do what he feels like doing and I will stop him if it gets too far. Ya know?
Also, I am really tired of men assuming that when a hot woman is alone at a bar that she must have a boyfriend nearby or she is a really expensive person. I'm sorry, but when I go to the bars alone I am looking for a good lay and nothing else....when I go with my friends I am still only there to dance and not to spend men's money!
2006-07-17 11:53:57 · answer #4 · answered by BlondeBooBoo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When I was dating, I found that many weren't taught how to be a gentlemen and often placed women in the same categories. Sentences that included the words, "You women..." often turned me off. The opening of doors and what not only lasted for a little while. And many were in their 30's and had no intentions on settling down or being with one woman at least. But fortunately I had to weed out those guys to get to my fiance.
2006-07-17 11:53:42 · answer #5 · answered by wrtrchk 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I won't date anyone who doesn't have a job and a car. He has to have his own place, too. My biggest problem is finding men who are intelligent. Most of them only know about sports and cars. You can tell alot about a man by asking him to pick a movie or a restaurant and by asking him to name the last book he read.
2006-07-17 11:49:42 · answer #6 · answered by notyou311 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im not dating anymore Ive been with my man for four years, The one thing I have encountered with him and past relationships that seem to get under my skin is they go gaga over other women whether it be on Tv or walking down the street. I find it rude and disrespectfull to me they should keep there comments to themselves
2006-07-17 11:50:23 · answer #7 · answered by fred g 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have a few complaints, but I say my biggest frustration is that men I date don't take what I say seriously. When I say something, I mean it. So when I tell them what things I won't stand for, and they figure they can treat me that way anyway.. it truly sets me off.
2006-07-17 12:34:48 · answer #8 · answered by carlaerickson 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Baby Mama Drama
2006-07-17 12:00:18 · answer #9 · answered by Ann 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Biggest complaint would have to be that once we have dated for a while, they get distant. You have to make an effort to keep a relationship going.
2006-07-17 11:50:21 · answer #10 · answered by Mustang L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋