2006-07-17 04:44:36 · 25 answers · asked by irishnicola 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
big step and your over!
seriously there is no set way to get over your ex, some people never actually do, especially if there was no real reason why broke up and you still love them.
just live one day at a time, eat ice cream, enjoy girlie/lad nights out, cry when you want to or feel the need to and dont fall into the find someone new trap, when you are still in love with someone you can make decisions and get with someone for the wrong reasons, then when the time is right, move on
2006-07-17 04:49:17 · answer #1 · answered by sinnedfairy 5 · 9⤊ 3⤋
Well I know that when I have an ex and cant seem to get over him the best thing to do is something you enjoy, it helps to relax your mind. you should always remember that if he/her dumped you it just means that that particular couple just isn't meant to be and he or she just didn't feel comfortable (most of the time). There are so many more guys/girls out there that you should try being open to all the possibilities and get support from your friends. hope it helps.
~mel
2006-07-17 11:59:13 · answer #2 · answered by Melissa K 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people find that it helps if they do some sort of ritual, maybe burning all the letters, or as one friend of mine did, put all the letters both to and fro into an installation art project. Some people find solace in symbolically sweeping the person out of the house. Get into a new hobby. Become famous, or very wealthy.
2006-07-17 11:51:37 · answer #3 · answered by Delora Gloria 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you could use a step ladder
or
bury them and then you can walk all over them
or just get on with life
its not easy
i know been there done got the T shirt that says so
now the good news
bet you in a couple of years
might even be a couple of months
you will look back and think
what was i doing with that loser
Cos you found someone nicer
WATCH THIS SPACE
2006-07-17 12:01:09 · answer #4 · answered by itsa o 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm still working on it - I asked that same question & got a lot of good responses; if you want to read them under my profile, go right ahead. Maybe there will be things there to help you. Time, energy, stay busy - that's what I hear over & over. Good luck!
2006-07-17 11:48:45 · answer #5 · answered by pumpkin 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well what i have been doing to get over my ex is making a list of good things annd bad things hes done and about him. if good rules over bad i redo it until bad rules over good. then just thinking about all the bad things. it should make you like him less. another thing i do is write poems and stuff (my feelings and thoughts and stuff about him) it really helps get the sadness out and you'll get over him faster.
2006-07-17 11:51:05 · answer #6 · answered by Jessica M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont really.i just in time bit by bit stop thinking about them as much and so get over them without realising.but some people just get drunk and go out and meet new people to get over them.different things work for different people.why do you want to get over your ex?has he pissed you off?
2006-07-17 11:47:10 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go get yourself a future ex.
2006-07-17 11:47:26 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
build a bridge and move on. u were looking 4 someone when u found them. lots of other fish out there. life is 2 short 2 worry about one.
2006-07-17 11:49:03 · answer #9 · answered by donna 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
one day at a time.it will get better,i've been divorced 23 yrs. I still love and respect her,but am extremily happy i don't have to live with the yelling,although the yelling was good during sex lol!
2006-07-17 11:49:33 · answer #10 · answered by Joseywhales1998 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋